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I also prefer the over sharing types of content to me it makes me feel less alone with how I'm feeling.

I feel this so hard. And have the same issue with my own channel. I go through cycles of feeling motivated and inspired then feeling like giving up. Youve been so consistent and I'm inspired by your journey. Thanks for sharing this.

Hi! Thank you so much, I feel like the universe sent me this video or something because it is exactly the pep talk I needed today... I'm preparing for the most important exam of my life basically (to start working as a doctor here in Spain) and I've been studying 10+ hours a day all summer. I'm already so burnt out but somehow I have to keep going till the end of January 🥲 brutal, I know. You reminded me that I just have to keep doing what I can, and that is more than enough, in all aspects of my life. Better days are coming for us, I know it 🥰 Just a girlie from Spain sending you lots of love and luck for your own healing journey! I will definitely keep an eye out for more of your videos, I don't understand how you don't have more subscribers! 💕

Hi, thank you for speaking out about this. It's really refreshing to hear a woman’s perspective. It’s reassuring to know that these issues affect both genders just as equal, and it’s comforting to feel the same way you do. I’m in a similar position-feeling like the more I do, the more there is to do, or else I just fall back into my default self, struggling with waking up on time and feeling like a mess. It’s a mental challenge no matter which way you go. You’re on a whole different level of self-growth compared to me. I can barely wake up when my alarm goes off, so being consistent and waking up at 5 a.m. is a huge achievement and should be proud of that! . Personal development and training your mind are a lot like sports. When you start a new sport, you see athletes who are miles ahead-they’ve got their training and nutrition down to a tee, and they’re amazing at what they do. Think of re-wiring your brain in the same way, and aspire to be like those athletes, but remember even athletes have there 'off' days so when your in a position of working on it for a while a 'injury' may set you and this is okay! It feels like a lot of the issues we have is self - sabotage. Remember too a lot of people feel like this, but not a lot of people put the effort in to fix and go there whole life with this uneassiness feeling, the fact we are 'fixing' this at a young age will be a huge payoff in years to come. i'm sure one day we will get there! I’ve been thinking about developing a support program for young adolescents, specifically for those aged 16-25, to openly discuss the emotional challenges we face when we leave school. I feel like there isn’t enough genuine support for this transition unless you go down the formal mental health route, like seeing a GP, or it being seen as a mental health condition. No one really talks about how lost you can feel or the internal struggles you’ll face during this time. It can feel chaotic internally, and without early intervention, these struggles could develop into more serious issues. If someone had just told me that life after school would be incredibly hard, that my mindset would change, and that I’d go through various life crises-but that all of this is okay-it would have been so reassuring. I’m in no position to start something like this right now, as I’m still at the beginning of my own journey. But maybe it’s something I’ll pick up once I’m better equipped to face my own challenges. I’d love to hear what you think about the idea.

Recently, I came across a story. It was a story about a father and son standing at the edge of a forest. The path ahead was blocked by a tangled mass of branches, sharp nettles, thick mud, and overwhelming darkness - a representation of a mind. "How are we going to get through this, Dad?" the son asked. The father smiled gently and said, "One step at a time, son." With that simple advice, they began their journey. They climbed over branches, carefully pushed through the nettles, and trudged through the mud. Slowly but surely, the darkness began to lift. The branches started to untangle, the nettles thinned out, and the path became clearer. Before they knew it, they had made it to the other side, where the journey became smooth and clear. But as they continued, they came across another forest, even larger and more daunting than the first. The father paused and asked, "What are we going to do?" This time, the son, no longer confused, confidently replied, "One step at a time, Dad." I recently watched your video from six months ago, where you talked about wanting to move out. Back then, you seemed a bit lost and unsure, but it looks like you're finding your way now. Keep it up! I can relate to your experience-I've recently sought help myself. Like you, I tend to set extreme routines, often without putting in the necessary groundwork to achieve my goals, which leaves me feeling down. I plan my days down to the minute, and if I don’t wake up on time, it feels like the day is already over, and I have to wait until the next day to start again. This cycle has been hard to break and its been years - haven't lived a day I wanted to live in the last 5 years due to setting extreme routines.. I thrive on structure and routines, and I know I can't simply abandon them since they’ve been ingrained in me for so long. But I’ve decided to start with a baseline and build upon it each day, thanks for that. its time to take control. Another thing I can reccomed for your journaling time is write out 25 things you want achieve in your life, they can anything from wanting to reach to stars to wanting to build your dream physique, then pick 5 that stand out the most - this is what you need work toward everyday - one step , one email, one page at a time :)

Men have 'soft era' women to thank for the freedom we experience today. The freedom we experience from staying out of the dating game, marriage; having kids or ties to women at all. We're no longer the providers because we don't provide enough. We're no longer the fathers because our kids get taken away. We're in our 'soft guy' era. Both sides living our dream life! But one side ages with cats and a glass of wine, while the other side gets finer with age. I'll let you guess which is which.

As usual on point and very insightful tips really always so amazed with your content, thank you again for your amazing work here 😊

Have a blessed day/night, everyone, and stay safe!

11:45 I used to do that, to ventilate to a person, saying just crazy things without a clear order or structure, raving, and after doing that just feeling like: I shouldn't said that, I'm embarrassed of had say that. No one's had never taught me to that before, the other day I did it unconscious ventilating to chatgpt and it felt good, now I've already had watched your video I notice that I have to spill out the bad things to the air, and not to people, poor people that have had listed me rave haha lol

Back in my day, that's what your early twenties were for. Don't despair; enjoy being young while you can.

what habits are you guys letting go in time for the fall? ☕🍂

Im so glad it could help! 🫶🩷

Hey girl. I needed to hear this. I just subscribed.

Took the words right out of my mouth. This is exactly how I've been feeling for a few years now. I'm turning 25 in a month too. I feel crazy when everything is not okay, but people pretend everything is okay.

imagine being 33 and thinking this. Or 50. You haven't seen mid life crisis yet. nowhere close to it. 25 is a baby to me it seems.

this video is UNHINGED lmao but I hope that it made sense to someone 💗 if any of you girlies can relate, I hope you know that this comment section and this channel is a safe space for you to feel seen, heard, and understood - I’ve always got your back 🫶 ily guys always xxx

Hey Sami Namaste u understand Hindi ?

Namaste

Finally u uploaded!!!

Lazy and exhausted are opposite things and not the same. I agree! Lazy means not help self, society and unhealthy addictions and habbits happen. Exhausted means I am tired and I need time out for myself to care for the relationship with myself and others. Selfish, self care, self love and so on are explained wrong. People don't want us to be ourselves, peer pressure us to do things for them because that is them being lazy(selfish unhealthy desires) if they are not returning what you give them and you have been used in their lazy not exhausted ways. I hope this makes sense. Lazy is the category means sins in the bible. Love yourself in the bible is about healing and not take gain harm from others. Society labels words wrong for wrong reasons to manipulate others saying self love is bad and selfish and that is not true.

Thats just called being a woman, men want advice

This is amazing

This title made my day😂😂😂

Thank s for being so vunerable here, you helped me realize I also feel similar to you and that I should focus on things that make me happy but also take more time to study things that I am interested in and that I am wanting to learn more about, that is a really good quality you have to want to keep learning!

you assume I have a social life haha A lovely video as always

Sabrina carpenter twin❤

modern women be like: 'we don't need no man'

My parents weren't like that, they'd just tell me to go away

I'm 38 and have nothing to show either

ty sm that really helps me out !!

I know you feel like you’re struggling, but being close to double your age, and life experience to boot, 🥾. You just need to find your purpose, and drive on that. Some us older folks felt the same way when we was your age. From raw unfiltered advice I can tell you to stop what your doing for a few days and chart out where you want to be, what your doing now and focus on only the roadmap in between and then you won’t feel so lost. Our purpose is what gives our lives meaning, without a destination we will simple be lost forever, like a captain at sea with no crew. Anyways hope you find the things to need, some of us learned to late, Oh and watch out for others who will try and capsize your 🚢 ship. 🛳 Hope you have a wonderful weekend and enjoy your day. Ps CZcams must be promoting you, to appear on my Home Screen, Jfyi. cheers.

I thought you were like a super big channel omg, I'm sure you have such a great future in youtube new sub!!! ❤❤❤

Very good advice!

I've screamed in my car MANY MANY times! Beat on the steering wheel, screamed into pillows, but I can't say I've ever screamed in the woods, something I need to try! Just go full-dahmer on a tree! Hit it with a stick until the stick breaks! I seriously need to try that! I've also stood by this beautiful lake up the trail from my house, where I stood there skipping rocks through the water while listening to that reasons song by holloback! Good times! :D But nothing's holding you back from doing stuff like that! It's okay to be a little nuts sometimes! I think being too normal screws people over!

I cannot tell you how much I relate to everything you said in this video. so so so so nice to hear that someone else is going through this.

I see what you mean! And the repression of emotions and the not admitting to how someone truly feels comes from them not wanting to be a burden to others, as ridiculous as that may sound! They want to be around others and feel strong, which is alright! Nothing wrong with that, of course! It's just taken too far, and that's your point! It's taken to a place where, without realizing it, they inadvertently leave people like you struggling in the quicksand! Assuming people like you are doing the same thing, that being wanting to feel strong around others! And while I also see where you're coming from when you said the world is falling apart, I also believe that that's just from the natural conflict which comes from 7 billion people, with tons of different thoughts, feelings, and life styles! But, with those seven billion people comes inner conflicts, sometimes leading to, as much as I don't like this, criminal behavior! Sometimes... Not all the times. But sometimes, inner conflict, especially repressed inner conflict, can lead to someone turning to their careless aggressive side for liberation! Anyways! That stuff is natural though, is my point! Trust me, the animal kingdom isn't any better! So I think we all see the same conflicts going on but, we all see that conflict in different ways! I personally love the world we live in now! :D

Love your thoughts! Glad I clicked. I also found my astrology birth chart and personality tests to be helpful with people pleaser recovery. They jump-started the self-discovery or rediscovery process for me for sure. I also found numerology and Tarot to be useful. Tarot's catchphrase, 'Take what resonates and leave the rest' transferred to other areas of my life and helped me practice getting back in touch with my intuition. And 100% agree that observation is key. Early on I had to just sit with myself and start noticing and journaling. Can't wait to watch more vids, thanks for sharing!

Hi girl!,, you’ve described it so well and this resonated with me. However, I’ve done plenty of personality tests and astrology in the past already as I struggled to know my self. I have been a people pleaser and got stuck in narcissistic relationships in the past. And yes I know it wasn’t the best way to solve a problem but as I also struggled so much with establishing boundaries I found it easier to cut people which I regret those decisions at times, only a few that was deeply necessary. It took some time over the years to recognize my own person and establish my own values and I hope I will find my community that truly align with me😊 thank you!

Omg guys pls lmk if you have done any of the personality tests and let me know your personality type!! I’m so intrigued

I wish you well and hope you had a great day today. If you want to grow your CZcams and website I can help you. Thank you Tushar Sarkar

1. low expectations 2. social media detox (live in real life) 3. solo dates (cinema, cafe, library, park, museum!) 4. eat and drink well 5. movement meditation and hot girl walks etc. 6. romanticise small moments e.g waking up early to watch sunrise 7. be a main character 8. recognise this as an era and look forward to what is coming 9. document through journalling and pictures 10. take the summer to improve your situation eg no reckless spending 11. do a big spring clean and clear out!!

Thank you sm for make this video dear, you helped me❤️

Love the vid queen, and wow I remember watching ur video when u said smth like “mark my words one day you’ll see me moving out on this channel” and now it’s happening ☺️☺️ proud of u queen 🩷 and yesss Gemini here, happy bday 🥰

time stamps for you lovely people 00:00 - let’s get unstuck 01:15 - change through awareness 03:45 - get good at being bad 07:00 - stop distorting your perception of reality 10:59 - take the pressure off 🌷

❤I agree 💯

yeah u dont want advice just want to vent

I'm almost twice your age and still feel like that sometimes.

Hey, I hope you are doing better and found something that is a better fit for you! Your feelings are valid and I know what it feels like to want to just FEEL for a little bit, instead of working on a solution all the time

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