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Sorry but I love my personal history.

There is only today

If I could talk to the boy of 5 I would say look inside for love and look for the light to guide you. cut the lines and sail away from this tragedy.

Release yourself from trauma bonds

Outdated boomer advice.

Brilliant

Lot of recovery stuff in this. I dig it

I may give it up for people. But I hang on to it myself. I give my history up when I die. My mind is solid as iron.

I'm a bit taken aback by the oversimplification of "giving up your personal history" with no real explanations about the mechanics of doing so. I am personally working with a therapist toward that end, but people with complex traumas & abusive & neglectful histories have a harder time of it.

If you don’t have a story, . You don’t have to live up to it. That sounds amazing in so many different ways.

It depends on each life story. When you had good family moments and memories, it is the opposite, these past moments are the rock to hold on and bring you peace and joy in challenging circumstances and in eld.

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Thank you Mr Dyer

Thank you so much, Dr. Wayne Dyer!

I went through an abrupt kundalini awakening not long ago and one of the stages I got to was the giving up of my past and my identity. It was and still is extremely difficult. Because what happened is every time I let go of it I was given a HUGE amount of mental and emotional space and freedom but at the same time my mind went into automatic panic and fear mode as if I didn't pick it back up again I would lose a huge piece of myself and never get it back again. So after a little while I could not resist but pick it back up. This has gone on now for months, a constant backward and forward of attaching myself to my past and feeling like it is the right thing to do, and then when I get to the gates to let it all go and start telling a new story the fear of losing something inside of me prevents me from fully letting go. I am hoping that soon I can once and for all fully detach from all of it and find my way back to eternal peace. The ego is such a cunning trickster that the last place it has to hide is within your spiritual journey and practices, so when you get to the stage where you awaken and ascend it can feel like the part of yourself that is protecting you from the next step is trustworthy. It's for that reason that it can get very confusing on what and who to trust.

Seems like what my narcissist ex does. Hurt and forget. No past. Narcissists are masters. What a bliss.

The best analogy that I can use to sum up what this speech means is to be more like a cat 🐈. If you watch a cat they a complete don’t give a crap attitude towards life. I watched my kids two cats get into a slapping fight then 5 minutes later they are sleeping next to each other. They forget the past and live completely in the moment. So if you want to live a better life, live like a cat. 🐈

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Gratitude and love to all as I write this and look at the challenges that we face daily, rest in the knowledge you are not alone, we are spirits living in a physical body, our experiences, losses, failures, struggles and defeats initiate and cleanse us of this ungodly worldly chaos, let go of the madness. We are all going home one day soon to be with our holy father.

Thank you 🙏

My history is what got me to where I Am. I love it.... People must correct atrocities before trying to give it up. You see....we reap what we sow....so to bypass that law and not DEAL with it is like saying it's ok to have anxiety...😊....To toss what should be corrected is like trying to give people an illusion that to hurt and steal lothers is ok....I always question this Motive....teach making CORRECTIONS...it is so healing😊😊😊😊... Treating people wrong is not an illusion....but it is one to correct and apoligize😊....

Gibberish word salad.

Cast a cold eye on life , On death . Horseman pass by . WB yeats .

I would agree in circumstances where the 'other person' doesn't have power over your life, but you have to take into consideration how someone might eff up your life if they form an unfavourable opinion of you. The reality is that one shouldn't internalise other people's negative views about you, but you have to have some understanding of how interpersonal relationships work and the value of reputation in human societies, or you'll suffer as a consequence.

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I expect everyone to be assholes and I'm never disappointed.

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Wow! That was profoundly deep! Just what I needed ❤

I don't believe that's true about people, I live in a small city. The next biggest city is boston. I have a client that moved to Boston from Arkansas and he said the people are so miserable that he moved to the small City next door and he said there is a huge difference in the stress level and how people treat you. He said he is so glad he left Boston and so much happier raising his daughter in the smaller City

❤ Loved this video. Thank you.

Not sure how I needed up here but at 47 and starting over in many ways, I needed this. I’m a man of faith and this helped cement that characteristic…

This man is not a good person to take life advice from, he is so outside the ability to face reality. You don't get to erase your past. Just ask any innocent man/woman with a bogus criminal record who has had their name tarnished by a corrupt Justice System. It's not like you can go to your own private island & make a fresh start in order to survive. This clown world picks and chooses it's winners & losers. Make no mistake about it.

I often watch videos like this, but they all seem to have the perspective of bad things happening to people, but what if you hold on to your past because you were the one causing damage to others and yourself ? I am not the same person I was, I would never make the same mistakes of my past but the damage is done. How can I move past the guilt and create a positive future. .....

Incredible.

I SOLD my past today and it cost me nothing. My present is built on LOVE and the foundation of my new home is built with the chief cornerstone of OUR LORD AND SAVIOR JESUS CHRIST. Im starting to realize what the true meaning of REPENTANCE (CHANGE OF MIND) is. The GOOD LORD always reminds me that my past is gone and this video is a reminder that we are not our past.

I'm OK with my history, the good and the bad, I don't cherry pick history, my life isn't bad. I miss some things from past, but they all helped to form who iam today if I didn't have that past I wouldn't have what I have now

To a certain extent this is true. But without realizing cause and effect are real you will keep attracting and creating the same thing.

I lOve lisTening to thIs pRecious viDeo in my morNing !

Terrific video. Thank you for sharing.

What I wish I could have said to the man who pushed me then cursed at me in a grocery store 3 weeks ago- I see your anger. I see your struggle in life. I know your life has been hard and you react to it with hardness. I know you have been surrounded by and practically engulfed in anger, bitterness and negativity and you react with the same. You're on the verge of drowning in it. But it's not too late. Now, it is never ok for someone to put their hands on me. You messed with the wrong guy in the sense that I will not give you the fight you are looking for. Instead I will give you the truth. Your life is not working out very well for you. I urge you to look in the mirror before it is too late. Before you destroy it completely. I wish you all the best.

I’m in the “thank god is Monday club”

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This is amazing. See the lovable in people, live in the moment without judging...it's difficult but I know it's life-changing. It's also basic Christianity. Change your thoughts and you change your world. Amen 🙏

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I have heard different speakers about different human subjects and it's usually said than done.

Easy to say You think all of us can just forget it? Some of us are chained by more than words

Most who try to leave the past behind fail to thoroughly embrace and accept it first. That’s the indispensable step. If you fail to do this, then it will remain buried deep down and it will bubble back up. Don’t forget this! So what you really need to do is look at it with honesty and acceptance. And, frankly, if you do that completely, you really don’t need to throw it away after all. The venom is gone and it’s just amusing, or instructional, or beautiful, etc. When you realize it’s all just life, and you’re just a human being, most things that seemed so bad at the time, are just more beautiful examples of life. It’s okay.

Bollocks

Brilliant 💝

Thank you ~