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As you said you think ..then even me i think that you are not correct because the african norms has been generations nd generations so bck in the days if the two genders were born amale could be so welcomed because that male is going to become awarrior of the society yet the female was to soft to be awarrior to fight against men nd the male was the protector of the family in the absence of the father..which wasn't an issue for the girls..nd a girl wasn't given so much of the property because she wasnt expected to pay abride price to the other family which was the opposite for the male he was expected to pay the bride price ..so aboy could be given some property to be able to pay the bride prices nd aslo be able to support his family nd not the girl .nd the names were taken by all gender till when marriage came the girl had to take the name of her husband because now she was the bride that why he had to pay the bride price .they are now one nd in that being one she could bare her husband'sname to show she is adelekes wife hence having adelekez name..which was the opposite for the man..nd on the issue of Clinton..Clinton is awhite hence there will be different culture values..so as whites accepted gays in the cultures african didn't because its against there culture norms nd were i come from nd most of the cultures afemale was not allowed to go to war because it was dangerous for her wc was dangerous for the men too but still the men went to protect the family nd her ...the female wasnt expected to have much to get husband..aboy was expected to have something from his sweating to get awife wemen were treated as queens all of the wrld ..a woman was to be worked for in everything she wanted wc wasnt an issue for the boys ..they had to fight..sweat or kill ..hunt ...till this day wemen get more privileges than men ...just those u v talked about are the only one men get as a price for there hard work ...other than that men couldn't have any ...because children tend to love more the mom than the father because father isn't around is he working for them nd mom to be happy ...so i guess the children should take his name as a prize because he isnt loved as the mom i think the children should take his name...so lets guess your father is giving property nd he give you 500k nd your two brothers 500k each ...then you get married to a husband with 500m then your brothers get married to a woman with none because awoman isn't expected to bring in so you nd yr husband you will be having 550m..yet your brothers willbe 40k hence the the 10 went to there wives families...so i guess u kw what am saying

...n Chi you are beginning to be smooth and confident with your contents... Well done...

Hmm...not actually important... but simply male capacity and female capacity fitting to cultures...in Africa male are farmers and warriors...n so all over the world historically...

On point dear

You're doing great. Chi

Well-done for talking about these topics. 👏 Hope they will hear and start minding their business. 🤞🙌

The narrative has changed. It is no longer as it was in the time past. The perception of the male child as most important was a universal phenomenon but has changed as time evolves.

Weldone dear! Kudos

Girls nor dey bounce na,girls dey whine waist. So,na whining baby girl o. While all children are fabulous blessings,personally I prefer females,you know why,my religious belief and detailed attention to female children as well as experiences of parents in their old ages, female children tend to care more and show such in different forms...

Amazing video sis thanks❤❤

watching you from uganda my sister its true

Apt... People need to learn to mind their business

Chi. You said it all. The moment you become an adult mehn the pressure never stops. Nah you go give yourself brain not to fall into the pressure.

This is so amazing You are doing great

Thank you for another amazing video

About 2-3years after i had my son, someone in church (female of course) asked me "wetin una dey wait for for the 2nd one? " 😏 The eediat didn't know the issues we went through before the 1st one. Hmmm let me not talk. The ability to be able to mind one's business is a special super power.

Honestly couples are not able to enjoy that togetherness immediately they marry and that is one issue that people have refused to tackle...couples need to be together first before having to make the decision of when to conceive and be ready in all ramifications....❤❤❤

😂😂😂😂😂 you no well

Well-done for talking about these topics. Hope they will hear and start minding their business.

Grow yourself a brain. lolz, I like that part. It is actually an insensitive and useless question that deserves a hot slap for an answer. Maybe it might reset the brain. Thank you for this topic

The thing is some people are not just ok mentally to ask such questions.

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I love this topic, LOVE IS INDEED NEVER ENOUGH WHEN IT COMES TO MARRIAGE!

Stop pokng into other people's business. Mind your business. The sooner the better for you.

Go girl,you are doing well

Thanks for sharing, Sis! ❤️ Hope a lot of men learn from this. 🙏

Thanks for sharing. I hope a lot of men will learn from this 🙏

Some of us women originally put the blame on ourselves thinking its our fault, some wife's even pressurizes more for a male child more than the husbands.

I agree with you,you're absolutely correct

This video is very educational thank you so much sis❤❤

Very true dear. Though i want to believe that the men of this days are no more into ''it must be boy'' syndrome. It used to be in our parents era. Thanks for sharing this topic for men who still do not know it is not the women's fault

A lot of pple are yet to get this into their heads🙄 Dey will just be pressuring their wives

A lot of people need to hear this. Thanks for sharing.

You are right. Thanks for appreciating the men

Bitter as truth. You nailed it. DV is a no no and should never be endured. The only true management to it is staying away from it no matter who the person is to you. Those that run away live to tell their story. May God help us not to be victims through out our lives.

Lol...make P.diddy come for u first...😂

Chinny...I can imagine how you must have felt... especially how young U were then. Really shameful.

I feel people need to love themselves and be a bit selfish. I don’t seeing myself being a victim by God’s grace because the way I love myself, I can’t let anyone temper with my peace of mind talk more of inflicting pain on me. The way I’ll disappear from your life will shock and it’s better for us because I can’t imagine doing jail time because of one goat.

The system is flawed, the government has failed. Because they knew the justice system is a joke they act irresponsibly. But thank God for social media, the new advocate for the oppressed.

Really sad something needs to be done about this matter

The annoying part is that some of the new recruit tends to carry on with such menace like they didn't pass through the system as once a student.

Thanks for discussing this Chi babe

This happens in some universities and polytechnics across Nigeria most students don't report it due to fear of the lectures failing them Thanks for sharing❤

One man down!?

Yes. This is a need that needed to be met

Thank you for discussing this topic, Nwunye. Something really needs to be done about it! 🙏🏽😱

Very nice topic. Lots of student can relate. So sad many student have to die in silent because they are too afraid of the speaking up and having to face the consequences of speaking up if they eventually

Nice one ❤

Hello Chi, I wanted to share some important information about domestic violence. It refers to any pattern of behavior used to gain power or control over a partner in an intimate relationship. Types include physical 🤕, emotional 😞, verbal 🗣️, financial 💸, and sexual 🛌 abuse. It’s crucial to recognize the signs and seek help if needed. Take care.

The opinion that men deserve more appreciation acknowledges the contributions and sacrifices men make in various aspects of life, including their roles as providers, protectors, and contributors to families and communities. It emphasizes recognizing and valuing these efforts to foster mutual respect and understanding between genders. 💪👨