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Great listen. They look like 22 y/o babies lol. Good stuff tho. Thanks

The big mistake you made here was misremembering the thing about Jimmy telling his patient to push her husband off the cliff. He encouraged her to spill his coffee, if her husband is mocking her about it but he specifically DID NOT tell her or agree with her that she should just push him off the cliff.

About to head to court for the first time, MFT. Thank y'all for this!

Thanks - as a new therapist this was very helpful

One caring person can make a difference in connection to suicide both inside the family and outside any family on earth. - First Peter 3:8

What is aDA?!

Great content. Thank you all for sharing your experiences!!!

You guys are so great to listen to! Great conversation!!

As a mother who's experienced 4 deliveries, I must say that not every experience is going to be the same. So we not only have to worry about what other women have been through, we have to worry about how different the next delivery is going to be? Not only that, a whole new person is born. Someone we still have to get to know. We know we love them, but we don't know what makes them feel loved, safe, and cared for. My oldest was the easiest. I could bottle feed her AND breastfeed her. She was calm when she was with calm people. We had a bout of fussiness, but we figured it out, and the rest of her infanthood was smooth sailing. Number two, I knew her before she was born. She was stubborn. Held out till her due date. I couldn't get her to take the bottle. That was wild, but we were okay. I found it easy to care for two girls that were almost 3 years apart. Number three was the most difficult. I don't know what it was, we couldn't make a connection. I loved her and tried my best, but it wasn't enough. One, my whole birthing experience was wack. I was normal until I met the anesthesiologist. It all went to shit from there. The catheter slipped, the guy had to drill a hole in my back. After that, I labored and delivered, but as soon as she was out, my cervix went back to 0cm, and I couldn't expel the placenta. They placed me on pitocin. My body doesn't respond to that. I'll save you the rest of the details. I couldn't feed her right away, they fed her for me, she couldn't move her bowels for 3 while days! I specifically told them I wanted to breastfeed her, but they went against my wishes. My supply wasn't coming in as it should have. Both me and her were not having it. Whatever I was eating was affecting her, and I couldn't supplement her feeding. It was a nightmare. But I'd endure it all just to have her back. She was 3 months when we lost her. She wasn't sick, at least an illness is not why she's no longer here. All I know is I take all responsibility and say I could have done better. Better how? I don't know, but anything different probably could have been better. She passed away sleeping. It was hard. My rainbow baby came 5 years later. And if you've been keeping up, you will know that I've had three girls up until that point. My rainbow baby, my youngest, is my only boy. My experience with my youngest girl, my angel baby, put me in high anxiety with my last pregnancy. I decided I was going to tie my tubes after that. Delivery was induced, I did not have an epidural. I screamed as I bared through it. Postpartum was screwy, but I think it was because I was in hyper vigilant mode. I could not sleep. I'd spend hours until I couldn't hold my eyes open anymore. Sometimes I'd catch him not breathing, and I'd spend a minute or so trying to wake him. My psyche was shot. That's why I decided no more kids. Was putting myself through heartbreak and hell worth having another child? What about my well-being? I had enough kids to love. I'm okay. My youngest is 11. We all made it through.

My lesson; love myself and be careful whom I choose I love.

I have tried killing myself, well in a mental hospital!

Another perspective: The more you love someone, the more you understand you can't own them or keep them or have them to yourself. When they leave, which will happen eventually because we aren't immortal, instead of hurting inside, strive to love them even more in their absence, so much that its gratitude and thanks you feel instead of hurt and loss. Falling in love with someone before learning to love yourself will always end in feeling the hurt in their absense. But when we learn to love ourselves and know that people can't be owned or kept, it's grace and gratitude that sits where the hurt might have taken space inside you. So learn to love yourself so that you can learn to love another in a healthy way, this guy said too much without saying anything valueble on Love at all 😅

This is like saying the "the more you eat, the fuller you will feel" like duh

Just be aware there is a difference between love and limerence. Losing a limerent object can feel like grief, but it doesn't mean it was love.

I agree with everything I said.

Thank you for this, super interesting. I am the Co-founder of AnomieXR and we have co built a visualisation tool with therapists for therapy and coaching . Especially interested in a couple points you mentioned that relate to future features we are thinking about for the platform and talking to therapists about it. We are looking at incorporating text and voice to 3D models to make it easier for clients but there are a lot of ethical considerations with that. Would love to talk to the team about this actually.

No Even if I was an actual muppet I wouldn’t be able to take any advice about manhood from a guy built like a seated Kermit the frog.

What are you talking about 😂 every man I know loves to be by themselves in a room or what ever.

I love siting on my own. Being in my car is one of my favourite places to be.

Loving your videos - thank you for creating them! I did want to point out the occasional use of "sanist" language, which can be highly offensive and hurtful. When y'all have some time, I would recommend looking up "sanist" laugage and how to ultimately remove it from your vocabulary, especially as an ambassador for mental health. Again, I am so grateful to have found your channel, and I am enjoying learning from the various topics and guests.

85% of therapists are female. One of the best things about Stutz is a male therapist seeing a male client.

Hey guys im 35 male currently doing my Ba in psych with the intenetion to complete my masters in psychotherapy. Im writing an essay discussing the effects of patriachy on emotional development and long-term mental well-being of males. Stoked to find this page and get into this discussion

The only 2 people I know in therapy are more screwed up now then they we're before therapy. It's a money grab, especially when it's always over zoom

Ehh I'm at the point we're I think my time for therapy has passed I've got a lot of fucked up shit going on in there I had a therapist for almost nine years who stopped practicing when she was attacked by a bear I don't think I can go through a personal connection like that again and I know you don't have to be fully comfortable with them but in my opinion if I can't tell you everything why do it idk I wish I could do it again but I know I'm just going to scare the fuck out of them the only reason I was good with my old therapist was cause of the age we started at honestly I feel like someone new would be disturbed or get me put in a straight jacket if I really let my demons out I've seen shit that should bother me but doesn't like seriously gruesome fucked up shit so I'm always up in my head I wish I could talk about this stuff again but I can't and I don't think I will ever be able to

This is a major red flag that she knows she has that desire, just imagine a guy saying the same thing. Disgusting.

And that is how she took my child and never gave us family therapy. Then she abandoned my child.

Yeah, as an adolescent therapist, I quickly figured out that a lot of the struggles they were facing had to do with their parents and the environment at home.

God... What they are saying is good, but the vocal fry of these is absolutely unbearable to listen to.

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Really enjoyed the podcast!

Then he puts his hand on their inner thigh, and see where it goes

why does this THERAPIST actually say, that crying isn't manly? what does crying have to do with being a man or not?

Taylor Tomlinson has really done a great with her comedy because she's so open and relatable. It's so nice to hear someone talk about the same things that I've felt as an individual, it makes those experiences feel really universal 😊 🌎

Yo pause!!

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That's an awesome response! The world needs you.

She’s not the sharpest tool in the shed I see.😂

This is stupid advice. Once you speak it you're more likely to do it. I've been married 30+ years. We've worked through a lot. We never use the"d" word.

Thank you for this video! Very helpful in reinforcing ideas

This channel is absolute gold. So glad I have found it

🎉 Thank you!

Read a fkn book? Really? Talk about a HUGE EGO with this guest. Could not finish listening to it and will not give the podcast a try anymore. Disappointed

I would not trust this franchise or the operations. Their inadequate billing systems have caused undue harm to their clients as being reported to the BBB and ethics committee.

Honestly as a therapist and also someone who has cried a lot in my own therapy in the past, there’s a point where if I’ve shed enough tears to need a tissue I’ve had a level of Cartharsis that is helpful - any more is then verging on harmful wallowing. A tissue is simply necessary if there’s been a volume of tears and that means there’s been a healthy carthasis and a tissue can signal care- I’d be shocked not to be offered a tissue when one is actually needed

Thanks for sharing!

I have not tolerated meds and not currently on any because of side effects. I'm 4 weeks into TMS treatment and Wow! I'm laughing again. It's like a switch was turned on. I was so numb emotionally and I laughed so hard the other day over a funny video. I'm also starting to enjoy activities that I used to love, but have been indifferent to over the last few years. Two more weeks left and I am so hopeful. A few things to note: - I go in 5 days/week before work for a half hour treatment. - It's spendy. $30 copay for 36 sessions = $1080. I wouldn't be able to even consider it without insurance. - The tapping was very uncomfortable at first (almost painful but not quite), but after a week it didn't even phase me anymore. - I was very nervous the first week. Doing something to my brain totally freaked me out - Treatment for depression is on the opposite side of your brain than for anxiety. Doesn't treat both at the same time. Over all this has been such an excellent treatment and I wish I could have done this sooner.

How sad that the opportunity to share about self was ignored by the ass as he decided to minimize the host and put his friend on a pedestal. Lost me right form the start.

If therapists can be sued, this problem will never be solved. It's impossible to get therapists to care about/for suicidal people if it could cost them their livelihood.

Watched the movie 3 times. Truly life changing for me. I even did hypnosis, what was great but wasn’t as deep as the tools of stutz get you if you are serious about it. My life package is I am insecure of banal reasons but the tools really help getting control over it. Love it ❤

Thanks Stutz ❤