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Ask him what exact information he is trying to get from the news such as weather, a political race and so on then find other places to get that information.. like the weather Channel or online in an informed podcast or a channel that is giving him the information he is seeking .. because the news is rarely keeping anyone informed.. it's keeping people in a constant state of fear because it tells u every horrible thing that happened around the world, with every famous person , every crime, every war... and it always puts a negative spin on all situations because it knows that shock and negativity sells more and keeps people's attention more because we are wired that way from our survival days of if u don't pay attention to the negative in your environment you could die.. like oh a tiger is in the camp.. lol... so they use that to get ratings.. they don't care about informing u and that isn't their agenda... and in reality what good does it do to know about horrible things around the world that will never effect u and that u will have no effect on by watching and feeling bad about.. it only adds energy to the negative... so you want to focus your lens in to your home town your state your home.. want are things you need and want to know in these areas because u can have an actual effect on these areas and your attention to them could be a benefit... And you want to find people that are telling you this information from a stand point that you align with.. like politics for instance.. find someone that reports on these topics that is in line with your values and topic that matter to u.. such as health care or whatever... Don't come at it like the news is bad or the news is toxic.. come at it like look I found this cool podcast where they are talking about exactly what u were saying the other day... just introduce new ways of getting your info and the info he is wanting to help keep u and your family safe ... We will always have things around us that are not going to be what we are aligning with the key is can you stay in your energy and not allow this conversation or show or person to change it... can you let it flow past you and not absorb it .. make yourself a screen door not a sponge... it's challenging when it's your partner because we are so energetically entwined with that person.... But remember just as much as he effects you you are effecting him... you just want to do so without it seeming like you are trying to control him or change him.. people are usually offered when anyone is like what ur doing is not good for u or not what I want... just a natural defense will pop up.. even if they know your right or if they really wouldn't mind that much doing it a different way... the fact that it was brought up as a negative makes them want to defend it and dig in... So always come at things in a positive way that just offers something new that u urself are just discovering and wanted to share with them.. like oh babe u got to hear this.. I listened to this talk today and it was so interesting or I thought ud find it super interesting... People like it when u bring up stuff they are into and ask questions or just want their input.. because it's something they actually do have something to say about and some information they can speak too... So questions are always a good way to start these conversations.. like what were u telling me the other day about whatever conversation u had maybe one about something on the news... let him tell u then bring in your option... This will make him more comfortable with actually listening or giving it a chance because there is no (he is in the wrong) ... men especially do not respond well to any kind of criticism because they feel like they fail u when your disappointed in any way... That's why nagging rarely works... but telling him gosh I love it when u help me around the house .. or I'm so lucky cause my friend said her husband never takes the trash out and your so great about helping me... ... Those will reinforce the behavior that you want and need and will make him feel better every time he does them... Timing is another big issue... bring things up in a casual way.. like on a car ride.. or while you are doing some kind of chore together.. or just when ur both relaxed... Hope this answers your question and helps some dear one... I tried for years to tell my ex that the news was horrible toxic shit that was rotting his brain and keeping him in a constant fear state that was going to give him a heart attack one day from all the stress hormones it pumps into his body ... (all true by the way lol) but he never listened and I'm positive he still watches religiously. . So I speak from the experience of how not to get the results u want and from alot of time spent learning about better ways to communicate and better ways to get the things you want out of your relationships ... 💫❤🙏

And side note regardless if he chooses to stop watching or stop engaging with that energy... still make time for u to do the types of things u want and for u to engage with the energy u want to because this will only make him more attracted to you.. when we keep our sense of self and have our own lives and own ideas and own interests it keeps the other person interested and doesn't make them feel a sense of emeshment ... they know that you would be just fine without them and they keep trying to make themselves valuable to you... if you do everything his way or do to much for them.. you lose your value and they start to feel like you'll always be there ..

I agree completely. This was very likely one of the reasons my 21 year marriage ended in divorce. However, in the years following my mid life divorce, I grew into a more independent, adventurous and self confident version of myself. I spiritually evolved. I still wanted to be in a relationship, but I was also fine being on my own. I have plenty of my own interests and even travel on my own now and then. My question is how to create my best life and not attract what I don't want by getting into discussions about all the bad stuff happening in our world (inflation, our Gov't controlling us, fake news, high taxes, toxins in our food and water, etc.).

@@bjelfin I honestly believe once your vibration is high enough those kind of energies can't effect you anymore.. it's like your not on the same dimensional plane if that makes sense... And of course this is just a personal belief but I find beliefs to be very powerful things . . And also the belief that you are protected from them.. or even clearing those types of energies thru speaking it to water and food... everything is conscious in my opinion and everything can be energetically effected by you and your intentions and your energy.. I have had really great results with sending energy ahead of me thru out my day and telling my body to release any toxins in environment.. I practice breathing in white light that I have communicate with all my cells to have them restore everything to health.. Alot of people would probably think this is crazy but I really do believe each cell is conscious on some level and can be communicated with .. most never even think to talk to their heart or their body or skin.. but I have always been able to feel the consciousness of things like that .. I think it's part of man's natural survival mind that wants to always focus on negative and part of the feminine to nurture and calm .. The amount of people suffering from anxiety and stress disorders these days should prove to anyone that focus on a bunch of things that u literally have no control over and no say in is definitely not good for your health or state of mind... I'm super sensitive to others energy and it took me a long time to even actually recognize that alot of what I was feeling wasn't even mine.. I would just pick it up from someone and run with it .. or they would project it onto me.. these days I see others emotions as footballs and alot of them I don't catch I just let them fly by .. lol.. let them deal with them on their own .. because if they can pass it off to u everytime they are stressed or mad or whatever then they feel better all the time and u end up feeling like crap.. if you let them deal with it themselves they kinda get that you aren't the person to unload that kinda stuff on anymore... not saying at all that's what ur dealing with just speaking from my own personal experience

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I loved ur comment.thank you for this .I have experienced this in actuality. Blessings

People identify with their thoughts especially repeated ones.. then it becomes a subconscious thought that happens without u even being aware and what u identify as you becomes your vibration and that attracts things to u... So yes you are not your thoughts but we are very conditioned to think that we are and it takes years of practice and meditation to undo all that so in the beginning it will help u alot more to shift the thought...

​@@jenniferdennison8315 Thanks for considering my comment. I was not the target audience. Just wordplay and mischief. The 80/20 rule seems to apply to the people who believe they are their thoughts.

@@stevenchandler7783 what's the 80 20 rule

This is an awesome comment!

Yes but learning new knowledge from someone else that has experienced it or read about from someone who has can lead to your own experience simply by introducing it to your reality and opening that door of possibility for you.. it doesn't mean that ur an expert just because u read it but it also doesn't mean that information doesn't have value or offer u the information u need to have your own experience... what comes across your path comes for a reason and is worth contemplation .. it widens your lens of perspective... that doesn't make it a belief of yours just a option