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The problem is you like somebody who does not like you back then somebody likes you and you dont feel the same.

People are loosing interest on dating because if you dont have a crush on them it seems boring and lifeless

Good advise stop bothering move on and you will find somebody interested.

Does not matter what sex is not responding. For me im a woman i dont answer because i am not interested period .its not a priority to answer to some dude or lady co worker neighbor whatever. I dont care to talk to you and wish you did not call.

The fact that he is unaware not asking questions about her is telling so much. Mostly, these people are self absorbed and you’ll end up in a one sided relationship anyways…Really! I can tell… for whole my life I almost never came across a person who was genuinely interested in me!! It’s crazy even family doesn’t even want to get to know me, i bet my father doesn’t even know what my favorite color is… but they do want to talk about themselves! Yeah, your good for that but they get bored if you take the spotlight for even just a second…

The key is to send a strong and specific text message. One that deserves and requires a reply. Not How are you etc. They need to know that you are serious about them and not shooting in the dark. Then if they do not read or reply delete all messages archive them and move on. No need to block. That makes you look like a desperate idiot.

What if it's your gf who tells you she loves you and your talking about moving in together and she often leaves you on unread mid conversation and doesn't reply for 17 - 32hrs while she's posting on socials.

I just block these guys 😂 Most of the time they are emotionally unavailable from my experience

just felt with this had two people taking long to text me one waited hours after working and the other I was interested took days to text me consistently but recently I found a new girl and she's texting me non stop when I'm at work and even when she's in school she's talking to me daily nd she's super into me and I'm happy with her now. I feel wanted compared to the other two I met

To me it just really depends. I’m not one of those people that are going to expect a person to text me back every second of the day because we are all busy and have lives. However there’s a fine line between being busy and just being neglectful. if I don’t get a text back within the day I’m not gonna trip, but when it gets to a point where I don’t hear back every few days, it’s a no for me. Because by then I’m not committed to the conversation anymore, the excitement is gone.

women save so much time by not reaching out first. impatient men burn out quickly when they have to reach out first all the time in the beginning. it weeds out a lot of ppl that aren’t for you. some even get discouraged and can’t make it to next week’s date the women agreed on. but the point of a date it to learn if you want to move forward with that person & go on more dates. people are too emotionally invested in the beginning, not a vibe.

If he's gay sure.. Straight.. Then its absolutely BS

❤ this

I've just asked him tonight we chat online I was asking all the question so I said to him first right no more questions I'm asking till you ask me , he replied it's OK it's all good ask me questions, I said no it's silly , then I said OK here's a question why don't you ask me any questions I don't bite , his reply was I'm tired now I will try think of a question tomorrow so I just said OK, but if it's just a general question like whst have you done today I'm not going to be impressed after all how can you even get to know each other if its all one sided even if we are just building up a friendship , he knows I think he is good looking .

Yeah but we are adults and I am not interested in games.

Because you're not a high value man in her eyes

What movie is this?

I have so many times been very interested in a guy I see on an app and he calls/messages three times before the end of the day. I am immediately overwhelmed by that. Like, way too aggressive. It's not that I don't appreciate genuine interest, but I have dealt with men who are truly aggressive, entitled, and don't respect my boundaries...and when someone imitates that behavior even a little bit I find it very unattractive as a first impression. If we were dating and established mutual interest it's not as big a deal. My advice is to wait about 4 to 5 days to follow up and only do it once. It is a matter of fact that high value women have a large number of men to choose from and it can get messy when they are new to dating and apps. She might come back and see your value but you have to be patient.

thanks bro

Dude, this video is $&%#ing obnoxious. Get over yourself, bro, and stop straining to find things to be offended by. You'll give yourself a hemorrhoid, dude.

When a woman takes longer than 72 hrs to respond, it's a dead giveaway that she's either not into you or she's got somebody else.

I’m not sure if that’s 100% true my guy my first date was like that with my wife

She's entitled. Especially if it's been 4 dates. It's a pattern. She's a 31 year old woman who should know better. Yikes...

It's a good idea, as long as the weather is good -prepare the person ahead of time so we don't wear high heels. I live in the very cold north, so our chances of an outdoor walk are 5 months of the year at most, if sitting on a bench where it could get cold, limited to 3 months. I think it can be uncomfortable to do dinner with someone you don't know, having to sit there, this expectation now of the dinner check. It can ruin the whole thing. I'm doing it tomorrow for a second date. I also agree with the asking about the holding hands. Very weird. I had someone do this over the winter. No confidence.

This guy is the goat

How long is "a few hours "

Yes, as long as they are open-minded but if they are religious people and religion controls their life so ofc not so run 🥰

What if she calls me dude ?

Nah theyre on their phone 247 they are either not super interested or they dont want to seem to keen.. but if they always message back within the day or next day and agree to meet up always then your golden

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When i first saw this video, i was thinking you're gonna talk about some sh*t like a lot people do. But you're sooo objective that it makes me feel so understood! Because people don't understand that i am not a social media person. I can use CZcams or watching some videos on social medias without texting anyone at all. And when you're pushing me to respond to you quickly, I'll feel soo pushed and will definitely lose interest! It's not that i am playing with your feelings or something. It's just that my life doesn't turn around my phone! I never check out my phone every single minute to see if someone texted me or textes me back. I'm not that kind of person. And when i feel pushed to respond quickly, i automatically feel smothered!

Your video came up randomly on my feed, let me just say for a 15+ year old video, you're absolutely correct about asking a girl out. These "dating coaches" now days have everyone confused 😂

Ugh, we have a high-ranking chef at my catering job who is stuck up. On one of her first days, we were doing a service at this university's hockey/basketball location, and she was telling us how to do things the "right" way, acting like an experienced leader. Thing is, _we've_ been doing this service for years; _she_ was new, and already acting like she knew better than us. She practically said she was better than us. And last week, she got in my face about filter. Apparently I said something wrong, but I don't even know what; she never specified, and she told me I can only talk about work and school. That is absurd and unreasonable. And the next day, she told me she wasn't trying to give it to me (while gesturing like an angry person), she was trying to help me be successful. Oh, why? Because I'm a big Ioser without her help?

They don't perceive you with much value, therefore they don't invest much. You either can call them out showing weakness and that you care about the ignoring (wrongly done) and decreasing her interest even further. Or you can text days after with something cool you are doing, so you show that you don't care about the ignoring and maybe increase her interest, also indirectly that you still think about her, so you are attacking the root (the interest), and not the effect that low interest causes. So maybe she will increase her interest over time or if not you have to move on. If you are ready to do so, let her know a clear deadline where you won't be accepting to receive messages after (not to long, this hints your value, if you put one shorter than she is answering you, she would be intested in what do you have that she doesn't know to value your time more than she does) 1. Don't increase her ego or lower your value with "i'm hurt messages aka what are you doing that you don't answer" 2. After hinting your value to her, confirm that by setting clear limits where if she wants to get something from you, she should be playing by those rules. And you have to make that be respected and make clear that you leave if she didn't pay attention to the deadline, accept to forgive if she asks to, but don't make that usual. 3. Look for the other options already, you will be better with girls who already have interest in you. You can hint that awell to the girl if she crossed the red line of limit you have set. She doesn't care anyways, but it would definetly increase her interest to make an additional effort to keep you.

I'm depressed

If a btch doesn't reply move on don't waste your time life is too short and precious

good insight

Great idea.

What about a week for responding to a text? I still did nothing, because while she did Apologize and respond to my text with detail, she never followed up with any question to continue the convo. In my mind her reply didn't warrant a acknowledgement of her text, but she did earn a week of silence as i just did or better. I got no time for them games

the thing is, if i follow what you say to avoid being desperate, and they just leave, what do i do. suck it up and move on? they just have zero mutual interest in me back and theres ntg i can do but find another?

I think, I personally have a bad habit of asking the same thing. Over and over again. Only somethings. I don't even realise I am doing it the time What can I do?. This usually happens if there too much time between the frequency of talk.

Good video

Hello. Recently had 2 great dates with a woman who shown mutual attraction. I’m not big on messages her but I check in now and again to see when she’s free to meet up again. She has always taken a long time to reply, hours sometimes 24+ hours. I recently asked her if she’d like to visit me but she said she has work commitments and couldn’t but her replies are taking longer and longer. I asked if everything was ok and she said that she might not be able to fully date as much as I do and that she is still healing from her 12 relationship. Iv told her I’m happy to take things slowly and that I didn’t want her to feel I was giving off relationship vibes. She hasnt responded yet. Do you think she is still interested? Appreciate any replies, thanks.

I was in love with that bitch until she keep me waiting for 7 years to reply me .. and every reply took 2 to 3 weeks .. I most move on on that

I ask interesting questions and often use the "question" tool. My profile offers plenty of threads and say I prefer to have a phone or video call over texting. My convos still flop/men don't make an effort to continue the conversation or lead it anywhere. Any suggestions?

It’s because she’s not that interested, usually. But I agree you have to ignore it and try anyway.

"There is simply no better option." That little bit hit my ear right. It applies to a lot of things.

Great to see you're still making great advice videos Old friend!!! Saw ur videos when I was in highschool over 10 years ago... Keep up the good work! 👏

I don’t think it really matters if you wanna find out what her relationship status is just ask her directly u don’t have to come up with these crazy one liners or another way to find out is just talk to her and when you’re having a convo she’ll either bring it up or like I said you’ll probably have to be the one to bring it up along the way if you’re curious to know

Yeah but 36 days after is kind of excessive don’t you agree?