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Well, I got a better job, gave up the look and style that I liked and copied others on the street,was never overweighted, read books to learn how to comfort others and spent lot of time reflecting on what I did that might push people away...and still no one wants me,I don't think I'll ever find love. it only gets more frustrating everyday

At this point- Moving On.- don't be gullible- spider sense- Finding another place- Stay non committed- create vision.

Letting go - easy- starting over no problem. Focus on the dreams- make it priority- she walked in - she knows where the door out. The book END..Start a new beginning book- shades- Beaches. Create/ Adventure. Exit Ramp- top off - cruising

Never easy - keep yourself busy and active. Eventually it will cease. Focus on the beach and then go back home

It's only a dream!! Sooner or later - will be gone- it will be replaced- depending - easy now for me -.

Long time ago- made a promise with a brother- unfortunately he passed away- stay focused- time has come. FATE - jumped in not suspected this meet Leo- spider sense was off. Anyway was brief encounter. Now - stay focused follow that promise- dream

Susan, you're glowing!

Speaking of texts and honesty, in January I started "No dating by text," where texting is not for anything conversational. Outside of necessary or courtesy texts asking if it is a good time for a call, or logistic information, all communication is by phone call. A couple dates absolutely disliked this. One completely did not honor this request and sent full out communications and refused to call or pick up the phone. Another said he'd honor it but continued sending full convo in text and wouldn't call. Yet the one who did honor this readily, (because he agreed as well,) was refreshing. Granted, he and I were not a match, still it was refreshing to find someone who honored and agreed with my preferred style of commo. The texting was not only uncomfortable for my neck and eyes but, also, was too easy to trigger insecurities. The lack of tone wasn't fun for me. Enjoying your videos SO much! Thank you.

felt every word you said 💔

I'm one minute in...if the writer wants more of what he is giving her then stick around. If it has not met her expectations and she wants more, then it seems like a closed deal. Granted, will she always want "more" and is he just feeling her out to see if he can trust her. What does her gut tell her? Looking forward to watching this! Huge fan here, sign me, in AZ!!!

4:49 an absolute lie. This cannot be always true.

thankyou mam

It's never too late to de tran sition ❤

Definitely that feeling is not love. Real love is sacrifice. It can become love. It's definitely a powerful part of romance.

Thank you for your wisdom. I feel you need a plain background; all the stuff behind you is distracting. Your bedroom is your private space we don't need to see it.

He's playing her, just say it!

I thought limerence was the passion you both feel at the beginning of a relationship which is great but only lasts a few months! Why is everything so complicated these days and attached to anxiety?

Hi Susan.. Thanks for another video with a great topic.. I really love that you are giving a peek into your home.. I suppose it's Nikka sleeping on the bed.. ❤

Communication is the key- open - play it out. If not oh well. F W.B.

Sooo smart and great looking

A year is WILD! He’s not into her, he’s just lonely and many men want female energy around them because they like the attention and the ego boost. He’s just using her until he wants to be in a relationship and/or something better comes along

You are such a wise lady. You look fantastic as always, and give solid, practical advice about a subject that is ruled by anything but practical emotions. I love your videos, please keep them coming ❤

Le monde change pour le meilleur ou pour le pire, tu parles toujours avec une voix de raison. Je t'applaudis de le faire avec un courage sans entraves !!! Continue comme ça !!! Salutations d'Annecy, France !!!❤👩

I had an avoidant ex who did this.

Thank you Love Goddess for another video on a subject I know nothing about. Knowledge is a vector, and vector is power. Your ability to pass on that vector gives you power !!!

Not dating related: that blue is gorgeous on you. Ty for the video

What's weird is I have the opposite problem, my man wants me to be more affectionate and it's something I have to work on. My idea of intimacy is me going on and on talking endlessly about stuff I'm fascinated about, but I know foaming at the mouth talking about science and math stuff isn't very sexy, haha.

Do I want a change- you betcha- been in friend zone - long time- this was destined- at this age set aside my Emotions and Feelings. I have to except what it is. Loner- F.W.B. NON COMMITTED.

When im with a much younger man i find myself acting. Feminine and flirty!! They then turn on their masculine emergy which turns me on!! I whisper how i love their aura and how strong he is! They melt and become caring and protective. Ive had these younger men pay for my grass to be cut!!! Older men are boring and cheap.

Beautiful.

I need help

This is such an important message. We need to strive to have a life that is well-balanced. You truly have to love yourself before you can truly love someone else.

Absolutely ❤!

Yes - does disappear- replace find another with improved version.

I wish I saw this back in February 😢 too late, only me freaking ended up freaking them out and they were the one to dip

Thank you for this video. I needed to hear this!

Here's a unique idea.... if your partner is not making you a priority in his life then find someone else who will. There ! I said it ! Don't be nagging him and telling him he's not making you his priority . You've already told him that told him that quite a few times and nothing's changed. Dump him ! But before you do it make sure you find another guy first who makes you feel wonderful number one !! Then dump !

My little bisexual heart is obsessed with every woman I think is the one... Never had this problem with men as I feel zero romance towards them, just physical attraction and fun. But a connection with a woman hits so different 😭 I want to find my wife ❤

Im happy that even his younger than me i find him so much

Thanks Susan I needed to see this

Iam 18 years old I was obsessed with a person for 10 years but I really thought this is love but I finnnally know the reason it's because I was trying to force him to be a character in my dream not because I love him for his person so yeah thank you so much because you helped me through this ❤

Oh yeah the “I’m sorry u feel that way”…. Half ass insincere apology

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I hate it when people draw you in by love bombing you and then pull away

I finally spoke up about the issue of being either low or no priority and he dropped me real fast and found someone else . Right now it hurts, but I tell myself I will be better off and I'll find someone who respects me and a relationship with me.

When I say I am ready to invest in a relationship, I mean I'm ready to be there physically and emotionally. I totally agree with your message and I hope I am never in such a transactional romantic relationship. I see too many of them around me and I'm too honest with myself to take advantage of someone this way. I want unconditional love ❤

I like him so much I wanted to text him so badly but i don't think he feels the same otherwise he also wanted to text me. So i deleted his contact number so that I cannot text him. I think it's better than begging him to text me or give me attention. However I'm waiting for his text so that I can save his no. again ! Why are we humans so complicated? Or is it just me ?

Spot on!!!! ❤I’m 64 years old now. These people on social media are laughable!!! ❤. I’ll take old school thinking. I’m a fan for life! Much thanks and appreciation Susan!!❤

It is not possible to be friends and have sex with one another. NOPE!

What about their in the military Out of the Country?