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the psychology of serial dating
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In this video I will explore serial dating; Why are serial daters criticised? Why can’t some people stay single after a break-up? Is serial dating a bad thing... or maybe a good thing?
Resources used in this video:
psychcentral.com/health/serial-monogamist
dccounselingcenter.com/why-do-some-people-move-immediately-from-one-relationship-into-the-next.html
www.betterhelp.com/advice/relations/5-signs-youre-in-a-rebound-relationship-and-how-to-bounce-back/
pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/24066169/
journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/0265407514525086
www.frontiersin.org/research-topics/7666/why-people-gossip-and-what-it-brings-about-motives-for-and-consequences-of-informal-evaluative-information-exchange/magazine
Stay safe and I'll see you in the next one 🧸🤍
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the obsession with kpop idols' bodies is...concerning
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Komentáře

  • @ajfox3966
    @ajfox3966 Před 23 dny

    Wow love the vid!

  • @moimoimemeje968
    @moimoimemeje968 Před 23 dny

    just discovered your channel and I'm obsessed !!

  • @yoonbred
    @yoonbred Před měsícem

    When i was in the worst parts of my disordered eating patterns and aesthetic obsession, i was obsessed with videos of idols bodies - while i felt absolutely terrible for them, all i thought was "this is what im working for". Luckily when i gained confidence and love and understanding ofnmy bodily and biology, this stopped but i really feel bad for those who still love these videos - they are not well.

  • @l0velyfl0wer
    @l0velyfl0wer Před měsícem

    I feel like some western fans don't see idols as real people because the kpop industry is so different to the western pop industry that it seems like another world - escapism for some people. So, they feel like they can say anything about these people because they're not apart of that 'world'. That what they say won't reach them or that they can say something about their appearance in hopes that they would change their appearance, like they're ai dress up dolls or something. This can apply to how people view the Kardashian's.

  • @kpopme7327
    @kpopme7327 Před měsícem

    Thanks for this video, I'm so sick of some kpop fans

  • @Rubylolo13212
    @Rubylolo13212 Před měsícem

    Is it just me? Or why (some) K-pop fans are obsessed with males idols abs? Like I literally saw some fans were so bummed out cuz Kai from TxT was apparently going to do a dance challenge with Taemin from Shinee for his Song (Guilty) and if you know the choreography you have to lift your shirt up to do it and some fans were soooooo disappointed when he wasn’t able to do it cuz of their busy schedule, like are you kidding me? You’re upset cuz you couldn’t see a stranger stomach? To me that feels weird and idk why it’s normalized but that’s just my opinion, Also sometimes I find it unnecessary when some fans focus on their idol body parts it’s quite creepy but again it’s just my opinion. Edit: before you come for me saying “Will some male idols are deliberately doing it for the fans” will we don’t know the exact intentions of these idols maybe it’s them maybe not, but I also brought up Kai’s example cuz from what I perceived watching some TxT content I don’t think he’s the type to do it, Even when I was watching Deja vu dance practice every time his hoodie lifts up it’s immediately edited out with a album cover which I think if that was the case for him then he’s probably not comfortable doing that and we should respect that, that’s from what I perceived though so idk.

  • @jobisrael8313
    @jobisrael8313 Před měsícem

    They say you only have 4 video this one you did three days ago another one two years ago and two more 3 years ago. Maybe this is just for me if this is fake news this is what the government do to me. 06-22-24@10:50am

  • @peachxtaehyung
    @peachxtaehyung Před měsícem

    May I ask why you stopped being a kpop fan? Just curious

  • @_Dan7_
    @_Dan7_ Před měsícem

    PLEEASE MAKE MORE VIDEOS I LOVE LISTENING TO THESE WHY DO U ONLY HAVE 4 VIDEOS ON UR CHANNEL

  • @_Dan7_
    @_Dan7_ Před měsícem

    hi, these videos feel so cozy, the sleepover vibe def payed off LOL

  • @SBBunny93
    @SBBunny93 Před měsícem

    It’s very reminiscent of American entertainment in the 2000s. Everyone talked about everyone’s weight, you were told that being “bone thin” was in and if you had any body weight you were “fat/chubby” as well as constantly involved with their lives via paparazzi and gossip tabloids. KPOP is in that era right now. Fans just create SO much drama but have nerve to blame the companies. Also great video!!

    • @LP-ct9nk
      @LP-ct9nk Před měsícem

      Companies absolutely do require the extreme diets/skinnyness tho. You see this with idols who are already thin, but then by next comeback they’re even skinnier even if the fans had no issues or weren’t commenting on the weight before. Not to mention all the trainee horror stories surrounding food and weight. I also think it’s more of a company/entertainment problem across many countries and decades, because even though fans and the general public have been very receptive of different body types and shapes all these celebs morph into a skinny similar look due to the pressures of their industry and bosses, because they think skinny is best and the default. You see this with how runways still have majority 00 models, celeb reps for brands are all usually skinny, stories of actresses on red carpets talking about how since they were a certain size the amount of looks they could choose from were limited, who is popular in entertainment, the popularity of ozempic in Hollywood, etc

  • @yoongiverse.
    @yoongiverse. Před měsícem

    i see a ton of videos that are like “idols with the ___ body type!!!” like why do you care enough to make that video though? you don’t have to say anything about what they look like because it’s none of your business lmao. i will say i hate it a little less when people say like “they look scarily skinny lately, i hope they’re healthy and ok” because it’s usually more out of genuine concern, especially with the ongoing issue of extreme diets and overworking in the industry. i still don’t think anyone should be pointing it out, but it’s kind of not as bad imo

    • @cowbearrie
      @cowbearrie Před měsícem

      i always took the body type ones as being "hey if youre (body type) they are too, yall have something in common and you can look to them for fashion inspo" but idk might just be me. i agree w what you said though!

    • @indigo_neo
      @indigo_neo Před měsícem

      and those videos never get the body types right either.

  • @asahikun4655
    @asahikun4655 Před měsícem

    People only talk about it because they themselves are more obsessed

  • @ilovekanye222
    @ilovekanye222 Před měsícem

    ngl i thought this would have more views and likes

  • @ilovekanye222
    @ilovekanye222 Před měsícem

    "im gonna not try to look so much" *looks even more*

  • @Koyuka1004
    @Koyuka1004 Před 2 měsíci

    Completely my story I did this thing almost 10 time from past 4 years 😅 and still I'm not giving up

  • @yulaozduru879
    @yulaozduru879 Před 2 měsíci

    Main reasons i cant audition (i will try to!)😭😭 - Parent permission - dont know korean well (still working on) - i dont fit into the kbs bc im half balkan and half japanese😭🙏 I am a dancer but idk still

    • @Kaiya_aa
      @Kaiya_aa Před 2 měsíci

      It’s okay if you don’t know any Korean languages just learn basic Korean word bc being a trainee they will teach you how to speak Korean

  • @Ilysm_nojk
    @Ilysm_nojk Před 2 měsíci

    OMG I THOUGHT U WERE KOREAN

  • @cherryvanils
    @cherryvanils Před 3 měsíci

    wow

  • @an-cn7oy
    @an-cn7oy Před 3 měsíci

    OMGG JYP PAPI RESPONDEDD

  • @wedonotcarefreedompeople-5ye

    Now we are already sis unis and katseyes are global girl group filipino fellow members in korea and usa ff entertainment and hybe label u are next i hope u audition will be good luck.

  • @Army77719
    @Army77719 Před 3 měsíci

    14:05 i really laughed 😂😂😂😂

  • @Keerthi_covers
    @Keerthi_covers Před 6 měsíci

    Guys i think she got into a kpop company... That's the reason she didn't post . I'm not sure I'm just guessing

  • @hibazakirhussain9137
    @hibazakirhussain9137 Před 7 měsíci

    The way we both have so much in common makes me feel like trying this but I still hesitate like rn I'm 16 (13 yrs old me used to think I'm old and talentless) and got my interest in this when I was like 13 but due to all the similar thoughts I never tried giving audition ever(but I did my side hustle by self training myself ) but recently after almost giving up I'm collecting my guts to audition once without telling anyone so I don't regret about never trying to achieve my dream so that my future self don't say I didn't try. I'm still collecting guts...

    • @breisachipati
      @breisachipati Před 7 měsíci

      you should let ur dreams guide u, so go for it you can do it, chase until u make it right?! Fighting!!!😁

    • @hibazakirhussain9137
      @hibazakirhussain9137 Před 7 měsíci

      @@breisachipati thank you! Your words matters so much to me! 💗

    • @breisachipati
      @breisachipati Před 7 měsíci

      @@hibazakirhussain9137 nothing for it, hope u can do it. 😇🫶🏽

  • @user-rd9qv1sp7p
    @user-rd9qv1sp7p Před 7 měsíci

    guys its been a while since she she hasnt posted in a year sooo what if she got accepted

  • @user-lu8so7og8k
    @user-lu8so7og8k Před 8 měsíci

    Heh.... 3 year's later and it's still Recomended..

  • @Bp_blink8
    @Bp_blink8 Před 9 měsíci

    11:33

  • @Zoikisworld_mm2
    @Zoikisworld_mm2 Před 9 měsíci

    Honey you sound so good you should be one

  • @Zoikisworld_mm2
    @Zoikisworld_mm2 Před 9 měsíci

    I would do anything to be in black pinks group is miyeon comes back I would get them to go in there group

  • @Sara-mr7ux
    @Sara-mr7ux Před 9 měsíci

    Uhm you can still audition with 19

  • @swaggy_sisters1055
    @swaggy_sisters1055 Před 11 měsíci

    Please make more videos this is so good!!❤

    • @wrd2lia
      @wrd2lia Před 2 měsíci

      she passed away :(

    • @Berfin-qf9us
      @Berfin-qf9us Před 2 měsíci

      Is this a joke? Why what happened? ​@@wrd2lia

  • @MiyLei
    @MiyLei Před rokem

    I should totally do this... but like as a catfish lol. Edit some headshots, find a dancer friend to record as me, singing voice would be real but like... no expectations. Just for fun lol

  • @doniawarteni8749
    @doniawarteni8749 Před rokem

    Don't give up

  • @naiyxy9689
    @naiyxy9689 Před rokem

    YOU CAN BECOME A KPOP IDOL FR.....

  • @lettersofateengirl
    @lettersofateengirl Před rokem

    babes are you dead

  • @AngeAngeAngeAngeAnge

    I audition for a company and they treated me bad, I now left the company and the group I was gonna debut now is un active thank God. I'm gonna keep trying and get inspired from this video (:

  • @Bunny_1347
    @Bunny_1347 Před rokem

    your an amazing singer thought you should know

  • @mandisimnguni8726
    @mandisimnguni8726 Před rokem

    Gurl you look beautiful 🤩

  • @bria7885
    @bria7885 Před rokem

    She's really good at singing and dancing

  • @vathena6103
    @vathena6103 Před rokem

    Girl audition again!

  • @querogo4ar556
    @querogo4ar556 Před rokem

    jefersson mehl sou fa dele pfv seus marginal

  • @noella7059
    @noella7059 Před rokem

    But like what if 2 or more company's accept you..

  • @bubbyajkids9628
    @bubbyajkids9628 Před rokem

    What song is she singing and dancing to in the beginning?!! EDIT: I love your channel I hope to see your channel super famous one day, unnie! ❤️💝

  • @Lilmozzie
    @Lilmozzie Před rokem

    your voice is the definition of SPECTACULAR AND AMAZING

  • @goldmedalribbon
    @goldmedalribbon Před 2 lety

    why i cant audition : - parents (wouldnt let me audition nor go to korea if i passed💀) - not asian - cant dance - cant speak korean - barely fits beauty standards - also my parents are racist😕😕

  • @chaebae3812
    @chaebae3812 Před 2 lety

    audition for Dr Music

  • @jasonyo5676
    @jasonyo5676 Před 2 lety

    Auditioning "AT" (NOT TOO) these companies.

  • @dishu2939
    @dishu2939 Před 2 lety

    I turned 19 too this year lmao m good at singing but not in dancing and i only gave auditions for 5 times ig lmao idk when will I see myself there;)

  • @mariaclara-vh2hb
    @mariaclara-vh2hb Před 2 lety

    guys is my cousin Jesus im so proud of you 😭💗

  • @haerin4534
    @haerin4534 Před 2 lety

    07:32 wow