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I am soooo glad my son didn't take the trash to the curb for 3 pick-ups!!! I had thrown my diamond ring away and it had been missing for 10 days. It was at the bottom of the dumpster. Make sure you aren't missing anything of value if your usually responsible child is lapsing. LOL!!! I love your videos and am binging. Once I get the funds together I will take the plunge.

My son hated school until he got his GED. He loved the community college environment. They paid him to go through the course and take the test. He took their offer of 2 years of free college and got an associate in machine tooling. He then joined the Air Force. He will be a mechanic for the airlines when he gets out and looks forward to traveling. He graduated younger than his siblings, had no college debt, and has socked away most of his income since he's been in the military and will be able to retire if he doesn't end up liking the airlines!!

But I have to learn to cope before I can teach it 😅😂😭

wonderful ! thank you

🌟💖 my mom has taught love and logic for years in Idaho. A lot of court ordered custody issues attendees. Which I think is fabulous. Love and logic is a huge net plus for society and truly needs even more attention and awareness. Thank you! 🌟💖

Blah blah blah, when do we get the solutions?

There is no way my kid would get out of bed upon asking. What kid do you have?! Is there a consequence tied to it? My son has severe adhd! I’m curious how this works!?

I agree! Love and Logic have helped me in my professional career as well as in my personal life! ❤

This is Great, love these nuggets of wisdom. I especially appreciate the insight that as parents, we are naturally attuned to responding to our baby’s every need & cry of discomfort. It’s a GOOD thing.. but that process of gradually handing back the responsibility of taking care of their own needs, & allowing them opportunities to tolerate discomfort.. it’s not always linear & intuitive, especially when we experienced neglect, or parents that weren’t attuned to us as children.. it’s easy to unconsciously overcompensate & try to give our kids all the love & validation we missed out on.. and not realize we’re overdoing it & creating entitled kids, wondering what the heck we did wrong! this helps so much to alleviate that mom guilt by putting into very practical, non-punitive terms what messages we’re REALLY sending our kids, & how dire it is to teach these basic skills.. I wish I had better awareness & understanding of this years ago, but it’s encouraging to know it’s not too late (tho certainly more challenging to teach them now as pre-teen & teen boys.) thanks for offering tools to help steer families back in the right direction 🙏🏽

I love it, your teachings have been immensely helpful, the closest thing to a map for navigating parenthood and the desire to help with not preventing learning but to foster it.

I pre-ordered my copy

Aloha from Hawai'i! What a great idea. Love and Logic is so effective when dealing with others.

Why don’t yall post anymore? This is great stuff!!!

I love this. My 2 yr old is really into playing with toys and having them interact but I literally never thought to use the toys to teach what to do in situations! We just have them say hi and dance or hide and simple stuff.

Love and logic full book

Everyday I have to deal with 34 yrs....whoa waiting is the Hardest part but endurance is being produced making my future Better for Another who DESERVES my Life ❤️

Great tips. 😀😀 Nice Try

My son’s preschool uses this principle and I used it too it saved my life. He’s a respectful 15 year old now.

One problem I had is the school really didn't discipline when my daughter always arriving after the bell, not turning homework in, etc..... The teachers would wait until it's almost too late to tell the parents anything.. When I was in school and you were late X about of times you had to stay after for a 2-3 hours. You sat and did nothing if you didn't want to do your homework. We didn't have phones to goof around on.... It's just really frustrating as a parent when you do try teaching your child consequences but it's like school, grandparents, friends, etc.... no longer uphold rules and boundaries. We need society to help teach our children that there are behaviors that are acceptable and unacceptable.

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I love Love and Logic! Please make more videos and spread the word 🙏🏼

Very very helpful and I appreciate what you guys are doing! Keep on!

Just starting to learn about Love & Logic, and this was a very helpful podcast. I can already feel myself relaxing and being space with my teenage daughter. I can already sense and am aware of how healing this can be for her too, for me to model better and use these skills. Thank you. I am hopeful about our growth.

My name is Johnny I am USMC VETERAN of 8-1/2 years almost 9 years I sought out help for my own issues and am good it’s my son I need help with. Constantly back talking, disrespectful, stealing, aggressive behavior, etc. I am seeking help because I’m lost and been watching pretty much everything on love and logic and some of it works and some don’t. I feel like I am failing him as a father which I told him he is somewhat luckier than me because my Biological father was never there for me until after I joined the military. My son was born 10/23/2010 and is good outside the home like this video says but inside the home is described below: My son just turned 13 and he started back talking me, and his mother mind you me, and his mother, have been together for 14 years and married almost 14 years the back talking started where he wise 11 maybe for example I would take away a certain item didn’t matter what it was, he would then say “you’re gonna give me that item or you’re going to buy me a new one “ it’s getting to the point where he’s physical with his younger siblings and when I say physical, I mean, punching, hitting slapping pushing down, aggressive and again he is the oldest of four his younger siblings are 10 year old about to be 11 sister and a 7 year old going on 8 year old brother and a five year old brother… To where now the younger ones are copying his aggression! I’ve sought out some help from my state, counselor, and even she has noticed at the beginning of getting to know each other. He was in a honeymoon phase, and now he manipulates the counselor by telling her what she wants to hear instead of what he actually is feeling or is thinking.. After the final straw of him, being aggressive towards his sister, mind you, I’ve taught all the boys that I am razee not to EVER lay a hand on a female, which I don’t care if the female hits your first you NEVER hit a female When I was his age there was a time where I got into trouble with the law when I was 12, which was expunged from my records when I became an adult. Which I told him that he beat me (never got into trouble yet with the law) but once he got aggressive again after being told his warnings I had called the local police to have a talk with him about the aggression and the local police (I believe) didn’t get through to him…I don’t know what to do I called the police to see if they have any programs that are a “scared straight” program and they “don’t have one but wish they did” type attitude. He was bullied by a couple of his peers but the school, my wife (his mother), and I nipped it in the butt. And then he tells us he became friends with the bully! 🤦‍♀️ I even tried contacting Steve Wilkos and nothing! PLEASE HELP ME BECAUSE IM FAILINF AND I NEED HELP! Anything will help at this point I’m searching for military school but that alone is expensive! But that’s not what I want! I just don’t know what to do and we are running out of time. I only have just recently under 5 years to get him on the right path…I even tried church, Taekwondo, etc and nothing phases him! AGAIN, PLEASE HELP ME😤😢😭🤬

8 passenger vibes lol

One thing about expecting love and respect because your children will fell like incapable human beings because they made their parents upset, so this is the way my parents have approached me in life and I swear to God, it did not work, you think, I'M going to live my life thinking about how my parents are going to react to my decision in life? I'm most definitely not shaping my life to be careful not to upset my parents, my choices do not have to agree with theirs and if they are not happy about the choices I make that fulfill me, that is not theirs to judge, you children are not to become. little copy of you, they are to get the most valuable things you can give them so that they can shape their life accordingly and make good choices because they know it is the best FOR THEM and not to please people around them. We all make mistakes that if for sure and I do understand that some choices children make, can hurt patrons feeling BUT only in the amount to where they make choices that will hurt them in the long run and not because you are actually upset at them, you care for how they are going to feel if they keep a certain behavior and that it is not going to enhance their life. I could not speak to my parents about my choices and the things I was going throw because they would straight up just try to talk me out of it instead of trying to reflect with me on how some things could affect my life and it is not about making someone feel bed even if they end up making that choice but as it was mantioned, still being there even if they decide to follow throw with something we might not approve, our way is not the only way, there are many way to live a fulfilled life but obviously, we are all going to go throw our own lessons in life and we do not know, what our children's lessons are but we can only stand on their side while they are going throw it, it is most definilty not about control.

Empathy is very much natural, it is the most natural things we can do and be.... 🤔

Does this feed the growth of narcissistic personality, or does it help develop empathy and sympathy?

Excellent

I have been introduced to your program back in the early 90's. My kids are grown. However, for the past ten years I have been a school bus driver. I love, love, love my job. Do you have any information related to School Bus Drivers? I am very interested. Thank you for everything!

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My problem is the day to day is great but the weekends and summers are hair pulling madness because there is no routine. Can't afford to go out and do anything and most times it's extremely hot out and that's just miserable for everyone. One wants to go outside in the heat (108 degrees most days) and I'm not comfortable with that because of the water restrictions we can't have a sprinkler or running water for extended periods of time. We have one vehicle and work opposing nighttime daytime shifts.

I'm keeping an open mind, and maybe I'm misunderstanding, but this sounds totally passive aggressive-or maybe not even passive but actively manipulative. I knew a woman, she's a grandmother now, whose father parented this way and she ended up pretty traumatized and developed some hard core anxiety about cleaning. The process instilled fear, she was motivated to complete tasks afraid of the consequences. It didn't instill respect or love. Someone told me there is a book?

❤thank you for taking the time to care enough about OUR KIDS to share your knowledge!

Now there are schools that literally have school policies that DO NOT allow kids to wear shorts between Nov 1 and until the Monday after Spring Break. For real. It's hard.

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This is CRAP and I think you know it...

What is the uhoh song??

This is a miracle almost

Have to learn how to play not to lose, not just play to win

It didn't raise my children with love and logic and I do disagree with this particular teaching. I found it far more effective to get to the root of why my child was complaining or whining. Usually there's an emotional reason. Getting to the root of that reason and solving the problem was far more effective. Plus it didn't leave my child feeling like Mom didn't care when they have a complaint..Now if your child is whining just to whine and you have already met the emotional need behind it go ahead and apply this teaching.

I'm a foster mom to three children that I have severe PDSD on top of other things and it has been chaos I'm a new foster mom so I've only been doing it for about a year with foster children other than my nephew I've had my nephew for 3 years now we're going through the adoption process but long story short I started taking these classes so that I could become a better mom and calm down the chaos I have to tell you that your lessons are godsent ever since I started watching your videos and doing these classes My house is gone from chaos to come lots of love lots of fun and a lot less stress on my side I love the phrase I love you too much to argue it has made a huge impact and then on top of that letting them know that I trust them enough to do what they need to do and that I'm not going to fight with them has shown them that I believe in them and that they're very capable of doing what they need too....

What about children with ODD or ADHD with outbursts they can’t control?

I learned you AT AGE 19. I WAS BLESSED WITH YOU. AND THIS... NOW THIS WORKS WITH ADULTS AND OUR CHILDEREN. I CANT THANK YOU ENOUGH . I AM 51 NOW. MY KIDS ARE 32 Years old. I'm now as we speak teaching you all day long every single day. I will continue till I'm dead.

My 17 year old son is in charge of trash and recycling. If he forgets to set an alarm on his phone and bring the trash to the street for the trash man, he then spends the week finding a dumpster to bring all of our trash to. Much more difficult than just taking it out in the first place

I wish I had heard this 5 to 7 years ago.

yes these are good im glad they are here to

thank you. needed this now. 😢

😅😅😅 thanks for this

How does this work in the daycare setting where 2 year olds and under cannot be put in a time out?