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Mine is just the opposite I would do anything not to ever cry again

“Spending enough time failing to treat yourself as if you do matter” reallllly hit me. I think just that one line alone gives me some insight with what I’ve been doing wrong my whole life and how to move forward. Thank you.

Love the metaphor of the pillar… 😊

Ok... coming back tonadd: Actually.... Yay! Yay yay yay yay! It's actually only uphill from here in everything you said. I'm sure I should listen to this again and digest it for the second time but as I went back to do dishes really everything you said only brings freedom. It's okay to take a dose of reality and let it punch you in the gut. After you get done with the punch you get to think about it slightly differently. 🤷 It opens the door for curiosity. It helps you be a little bit more vulnerable. It gives you the energy to take things in and explore without all the negativity or fear. It gives you permission even when you were saying go forth boldly or draw yourself back... Both of those can be strengths when you know when to apply them. That's most definitely a strength and both will bring you freedom depending on which is right for you in that circumstance. I think this was honestly a really lovely message. And I don't even use the word lovely. 😄 I just didn't know a better word to use 😁🤷 I think it can hit you in waves because depending on where each individual is... They might take this an internalize it slightly differently. But really I think after all is said and done..... it gives a person the most hope because when you're not ruled by fear and you can love whether you're falling in love with life or freedom or whatever... The sky is the limit. I'll listen to it again but yeah... Great message! 🙌

Oh woooooooooowwwww 😐 That's it. Too many thoughts. Wow. Damn Ok Yep Too true ❤🙌 Thank you for such a great video. Ill listen to this one more than once.

Hi Coach 😁 Hi Bill! That was actually awesome. I still have to remind myself on a regular basis that it's okay to need or want or ask because it is still a reflex to feel like a burden. Do you know one thing I loved about it on a personal level? 🤔 I think 6 months ago I would have had a totally different reaction to this video then I did tonight. And one reason that excites me is because when I was taking in what you were saying.... Which I do think applies to what I struggle with... I wasn't afraid to feel what normally used to bring me so much pain I used to want to cover my face from it. I like that through coaching with you and through my own climb for growth that I no longer hide from painful feelings. It's such a freeing feeling to be like... "Yeeaaaaa.. ughhh.. that's so uncomfortable.." And then just feel it without sinking down..... **Instead of** feeling it and literally wanting to bury myself into a hole and not let anybody see me or not feel it at all. 🙌 And I'd also say I'm glad I see the necessity of feeling it and also being realistic about the truth... because when I used to hide from it, it just felt unbearable and it felt hot like a hot poker so you never wanted to feel those feelings... Where as now there's been so many times where it's been a safe space to feel them whether in a coaching call or doing it on my own that I realize it's not always pleasant but it really is where the growth starts. ❤ And it doesn't bury me anymore to face what used to hurt or be hard. 🙌💪🙏 I enjoyed how you said it's okay to consider that you are a burden and accept that to the deepest step that is. And then I see where you went both sides of it. Super helpful. I will never be able to thank you enough for all of your coaching! It has been a rare experience because very few people listen to the extent you listen and just give a really safe and present place to "feel" things in real time without struggling so much. This week I reflected how much I've appreciated not going up and down so often in my thoughts or feelings but really just starting to accept myself and like myself and realize there's things to work on but there's also good things and I'm good with it. I don't feel like my identity is being shaken every 2 minutes. I LOVE THAT!!! 🙌🙌🙌 Thank you for your awesome videos! And I hope you have a 🎉great🎉 Wednesday since it's already Tuesday night! 🤗 Bye coach! Bye Bill! 😁

Bro you are such an underrated human being. I Hope this channel get the recognition it deserves.

Why do I sound like myself

Inner child I'm 14 this video helped me alot dow thanks

Well said! It comes from somewhere!

I need to know how to cry because last 5 years I don’t know why I can’t cry

Now a days i don't feeling crying at all

Hi David, it was a very deep thinking about existential problems. Many of us live in solitude. We percept the world like love does not exists on this planet. But it exists and it should be part of our life. I wish to have some switch to enable back that feeling.

Pay attention...... And then you die. 😄😄😄 I really enjoyed your lighthearted and fun banter during this. 😁 Another excellent video! 🙌🙏🙌

So tiring!!

Inner-critic

Last time I cried was at my uncles funeral. That was about 6 year ago. Wish I could cry but it never comes.

THANK YOU

I'm sorry.. 😭

❤️❤️❤️🙌

I'm lile a merman I'm unable to cry because mer people can't shed tears underwater so we take the pain even harder than humans can. I'm a merman. I can't cry. It's hard for me to cry.

Love ❤ work in progress❤

Now i know why all this is happening to me. Thank you ❤

thanks for this David, is this something related to shadow integration?

I dont know why i cry very easly .. i feel i am very week … this feeling is really dipressing for me … i cant control my emotions … i dont know whats wrong with me i feel very very wek

There is no way tbh. Dying is the solution to everything but its not right so we gota go thru whatever it is. 🤷🏻

Damn a honest life coach

Thank you david. I just went upt from bed sitting down with the feelings. I experienced it in the last times exactly the way you talked about. It is childhood pain and I resonate with the feeling of wanting to cry. You helped me now again with the reminder that nothing is wrong here. Being just present with the feeling and allow us to feel as full as we can is the most important thing I think.Thank you David for a perfect reminder and I wish you all the best, if you want tell me/us a little bit more of your story,..

I juzt need to get it out bro i cant keep it in puberty is hard man i knoe people are going threw worse but still its just life went from perfect to girlfriends exes dead family it just rushes in

I came from instagram and this is the best thing happened to me today , your word hit in to the deep of the subject i already feel that something is happening inside it's like believing in sth for too long and now i realize it's not my truth or who i am , it's the inner critic and the prouve is that i did some great achievements in my life that a lazy person _like the one my inner critic try to say i am_ can not dooooo🎉🎉🎉

What does feeling something mean anymore damn. Idk I just go through the motions ngl

I’m trying

This is such a good point. The mind will do anything to survive.. it’s not conceded with happiness/success.

This is me, it’s hard for me to cry even though i’m experiencing a very sad fleeting moment.

but its been almost a year, i just want to be able to let it out

Wow… this was on point. Thank you.

What is the title of this particular topic? I feel like inside an emotional coffin right now.

Thank you soo much...I really needed this clear explanation

thank you for this, this makes me feel heard, coach david

love these videos man . a couple have made me cry and feel better . thank you

Where’s the ❤ button on this damn platform? This message hit hard, got teary even. Thx David.

What a great video, thanks David

Loving this🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽So on point!!!! And definitely resonates. Emotions. Like waves, can not be stopped. Did you know that Guilt, Shame, Abandonment, Powerlessness, Boredom, just to name a few, all fall under Sorrow? The charge of each emotion creates and enforces beliefs that initially may have served in whatever capacity. But no longer serves after the event or incident.

Still waters run deep, but unlike narcissus , the reflection in the water wants nothing more than to drag me deep below. But we both end up sitting in the bank forever. Thank you for pointing out the double edged sword. I wouldve ended in death by a thousand cuts.

😂 so good

I've lost everything already in life. Except my own life

Inner-critic

I’ve been this way since my tbi and stroke. Smh

watched this cuz i seriously cant feel anything chat am i cooked

Jesus Christ is the solution. Going to Heaven Accomplish the work God put us on earth for By Having and keeping and strengthening our Faith in the Lord our God. Believe in Jesus Christ and start looking for a community to accompany you. It's gonna be worth it. It won't always be perfect, and we're going to fall eventually in the process, but God loves us so much he forgives us and wants us to keep looking for him. Because when we find him, we find life. ❤❤❤