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😂 really!!!

Be self-confident? The most successful people are not 10/10 and they say it (ex the Hormozis). You will always mess up somewhere and doubt… but ultimately you can reach confidence over self-confidence. Even this, I think it is still flawed. 10/10 all the time? For me at least, no!

@anticonfidencegirl even if you are flawed there's not shame in rating yourself 10/10

@@anticonfidencegirl self confidence isn't a bad thing. Overconfidence is. At that point, it results from an inflated ego and haughty personality

@@dylansearcy3966 I was saying, confidence is flawed. You can’t say you can achieve 100% confidence 100% of the time. We are humans!

@@dylansearcy3966 i totally agree! Thank you for mentioning it

Well, introduce me to dentist that will not botch me this time

@@anticonfidencegirl And a competent lip specialist too.....

@@Neillybob63 thank you, my pouty lips are natural.

Hello, it’s not about being racist nor discriminative, it’s about protecting cultural legacy and human biodiversity. And to further extent, if you read well btw the lines of my video, the next generation. And that’s what matters the most. Thank you

bro stop, its 2024. She doesn't care about your comment. Stop simping

@bigmoney2674 Thank you, SIMPing is a national health crisis

I suppose she does look cute for a woman with bad teeth and a long head. Lol...

Simps are gonna simp......

Thank you, man! I really appreciate

Hey, thank you! Thank you for letting me know

This is not about being racist but about tolerating and respecting that people can have dating preferences.

Believing "everyone should be with their own" is irrefutably racist. And you're tens of thousands of years too late in your racist delusions and aspirations. The populations have racially "mixed" since the advent of migrations, trade, empire building, education, et al. If you want that people "should be with their own" you do hate.

I hope your child has a mixed baby ✌🏼n the Middle East

@@phuryusstylesphuryustyles2273 Not gonna happen goofy weirdo. My daughters were raised by both of their black parents. They understand the racist society we live in. They also understand to have love of self and choose black love in relationships which they have. You played yourself

Sounds incestuous. Nature likes diversity on the genetic level. Why do you think 6 starting NFL QBs are biracial when biracials aren't even 1% of the population? Don't put yourself at odds with nature.

​@@kc-zf1jpWhen they're grown, your daughters will make their own decisions.

Hey, thanks!

Yes! Thanks for sharing those stats and your record. I agree that at individual level singleness isn't a problem. But nonetheless, at a sociological level there is a problem. That's why I talk about the Modern Dating Matrix

Your question is deep. The most efficient answer I can give you now is can you see yourself 3, 5, 10 years from now? Do you see yourself happy with that person on a day-to-day basis? On long term through projects? Is it better to be alone?I think you need to determine what is a priority for you, because many decisions in life are made of compromise, and maybe yours is a bit of chemistry (which between, chemistry is not THE foundation to build your relationship, it is known that the butterflies will fleet anyway, and the physiological part of it, as you age maybe even more, regardless of your partner, I think). The best decision is the one that protects your future, that's why I talk about 10 year vision. Finally the best decision is the one that protects the other person. If you feel like you'll be unhappy because of lack of chemistry, don't do it. She/he'll feel it too she'll be unhappy. And you'll feel even more mediocre, this will be a vicious loop of unhappiness for both of you and you will end up in a miserable couple with the risk of splitting, which one or the other will hurt your lives on deep levels. Take ownership in any case, you'll be rewarded. Please don't take that advice as the exhaustive answer. This is already a lot and I think you can go with it if you sit and reflect. You can also contact me on IG or by email for more support. I will gladly support you!

@@anticonfidencegirl Thanks! Very appreciated. I think everyone is different and the answer could be different for everyone, yep, based on priorities. It's definitely a loaded question! You are brave for tackling it!!🤣

@@JaxCover haha yes! but also remember chemistry will fade anyway so the question is: what will remain when it is gone? Do you at least have a solid friendship/complicity?

For you: czcams.com/video/K3M7q7qNPzI/video.htmlsi=-Rx7C3UwPemI34IL Thank you for asking

In this video? Haha thanks

Why do you say this haha. I don't divorce between. This is not part of my values

@@anticonfidencegirl You seem like you wouldn’t take any prisoners! Alpha female vs a beta male?

In my opinion this is uncommon, race still keeps a very prevailing place: political views? Where I live immigrants don't care that much about politics. If we are not attached to the country we care less about how it works. I personally understand that I am powerless in this. This is a game that is owned by the State so I don't believe in politics. Religion I totally agree. Although people will always add something racial in it because we feel comfortable in our culture, especially as immigrants as we are minority church is the opportunity to see each other (Black churches, Filipino churches, Malagasy churches...) Social class: well, if you value that, yes!

Exactly! It is sad because you start finding yourself when you’re a teen when your identity is in development and you already start on the wrong foot: should I marry this… or that? We shouldn’t ask ourselves those types of questions. It is like the gender thing: am I a girl or a boy? Know your gender and move on with your life!

What kind of science?

@@ShinobiShaman interesting question: I am a hardcore scientist: physicist, mathematician and chemist (although I was not the best in this one). Ultimately I got a degree in Industrial Engineering, which I optimize ressources, especially in factories.

@anticonfidencegirl I appreciate the logical mind.

@@ShinobiShaman 😊 now I wonder if you are a logical mind too. Probably

@anticonfidencegirl On occasion. Especially when I fragment the processional axis & redistribute it into space, in the form of two interlocking three dimensional equal angular spirals.

Yep, agreed

Haha actually this topic is on the bucket list (but not 10 years later). Thank you you may have just given me the title

It is the law of attraction 😉

Finally one meaningful comment!!! Thank you because this is what I witness

If you show your pants in pictures and say your best skill is to put your tongue on your nose, it is on you :)

Please, educate yourself before commenting. I have in mind successful couples, billionaires and multi millionaires who contain 2 “alpha” people like the Cardones and Hormozis. Why? They know how to balance their feminine and masculine energy when needed. There is no alpha or beta. It’s about knowing to be alpha or beta depending on the circumstances. Honestly, don’t fool yourself with your comment. It is better for you to remove it. The lack of education in those comments baffles me.

Just like for other guys: you didn’t watch the video. Then, educate yourself: there is no such thing as alpha or beta. You’re limiting yourself and your love life with seeing the world in black and white. No wonder people are so single. There are too many limiting beliefs!

I guess you have no ambition that you don't know how and where great people start.

@@anticonfidencegirl bro you're 30

yes

classist and ageist

I couldn't agree more! Even I, my best experiences still come from the real world.

haha. You need to be 2 people for this kind of stuff. There is no need to hurry to fall in a miserable relationship.

In real life it works the same. It all starts with physical appearance and so intuition. You wanting to analyze everything is what gives the famous burnout from dating apps. It's just not natural. And the man I validated based on appearance, actually when I digged deeper in the video he had characteristics I want: a real man. So my intuition was right. Honestly, learn from him.

They care, that’s why you all clicked. Also I have mentioned that I am not alpha in the video, so obviously you comment by ignorance. And I believe no one is completely alpha or beta. Finally not all men are the same.

I will add this: the modern world is producing more and more childish men (as the 1st seconds of my video confirm it). Fortunately women are not submissive to them!!! They would loose their existence. Men should be men = mature first. Then let’s talk about submission. She’d rather find a real man or stay single.

Why are you doing free dating profile reviews? What's in it for you?

@@randymiv hello, a free dating profile review :) I help people get better quality matches because I know people who struggle with this and they don't understand why. I in comparison am happier with my matches which means I understand how to build a profile that attracts quality men/women. I want to help. It crushes my heart to see singles who want to find someone but they can't

Ooo you’re so true. I will film a video about it. I’m going soft right now

@@anticonfidencegirl soft is OK for women. God bless you

Thanks for commenting. The point of the video is less about dating apps than them being a representation of how our modern dating world functions. Then, I don’t know what to say: I have used dating apps for 1 year and a half maybe, with inconsistency, but my experience has almost always been real. I have met real people in real life (and I am very intentional. I match with very few then I don’t spend time in messaging I turn every message into a date). Did I get scammed? Yes, once. Also one Tinder date told me his story that there were a lot of prostitutes on Tinder. But I also know too many people (either personally or through testimonials) that met their spouse on it. So I guess everyone’s experience is different, and maybe it’s more difficult for men than for women.

Thank you for raising awareness about AI

​@@anticonfidencegirl Thank you for your response. I subscribed because you actually responded to me. I think every individual would have different experiences on dating apps. Why is there so many dating apps online? It's a gold mine for the app companies. I'm not saying all of mine experiences have been bad. I've had some good ones. I know a lady I met on a dating app two years ago and she will marry me to this day if I agree to move to her country. I have reason why I can't at this time. I would not normally be on a dating apps, but my circumstances warranted doing so. I'm an American living in the Middle East in a Muslim country. I'm not Muslim and will not convert to get a Muslim wife. My wife passed away 3 1/2 years ago. I am a single parent now raising my son of 15 years old. Going online is the only way I can meet someone that's not Muslim. My age is a factor, but my looks cause me some problems. I am 70 years but look 50. I would be happy to send you a current picture if you like or send a link to my Facebook page. I don't have a problem attracting all ages of women, especially Asian and African women. They have no problem with my age, only white women do under the age of 50. I am white, but I don't care about race. I'm not racist. There are many factors when trying to find a compatible mate, but through my experiences I've had to go through many fake profiles just to meet someone that wasn't after money. For men it's tougher because the women expect us to come to their country to meet them, which isn't cheap. I'm your average guy (retired) which isn't in the top 3 percent of high-profile men making 6 figures. Many women are looking for that guy online which in most cases doesn't need to be on a dating app. Sorry, this response is so long. Like I said, I could go on and on about the good, bad and ugly of online dating. You sound English... Cheers.

Hello! haha I love a long answer, no worry. I highly appreciate. I think your case is interesting. It is always, to know people and get another glance at dating. If you wanted to discuss further I have an IG page right now: instagram.com/anticonfidencegirl and my email: anticonfidencegirl@gmail.com. I will certainly get a FB so I will update you here. Between, I love that when I put "single over 30" in my bio, YT brings me people over 70. Haha It's cool! (O, thank you for subscribing, I saw it indeed before even your replied) Cheers

@@anticonfidencegirl I just discovered you like singing and playing the piano... how cool is that? I think you'll like my style of music.

Self-confidence is a concept. Mathematically speaking and so scientifically self-confidence doesn’t exist. Self-confidence is simply unachievable (I wonder who could clearly state from their mouth « I am self-confident »). I have made a video about it« Why it's impossible to Gain Confidence in 2024 » czcams.com/video/-3hnG_81-s0/video.html In the field of neuroscience, check the Confidence Competence Loop: you guys think that if you are not self-confident you will struggle. But the truth is you need to take action in order to build whatever level of self-confidence. Thinking you need self-confidence is a fallacy and it just delays your destiny. Lastly, I’ve built a business without self-confidence and this is how: How I take action with No Confidence | BUSINESS mindset czcams.com/video/AjSaZhXGg5s/video.html But I will agree on one thing: confidence is needed, but not self-confidence. For example, I have confidence that I will fail on my way to success. I am confident that every problem is figureoutable. Confidence beyond self-confidence is what is key. I have filmed a video about it too: « Unveiling the Truth: why you should be Confident VS Self-confident » czcams.com/video/BACN2aNpHts/video.html The Truth is located at the intersection of all disciplines. Just don’t say « it exists ». Thanks for commenting

Thanks for commenting. Showing professional shots is representative of the business/professional side of us (this is not fake but a real facet), maybe even social status and that's ok if this is what you value. Plus I, like those guys, we don't only put professional pics. There are 6 pictures in total to put and you can see a picture of me where I show myself with no makeup, my imperfect smile and skin with scar and glasses.

Not sure

@@freelaughzone23 why so? It’s interesting!

I have found love, twice, and it lasted years in both cases so the app did its job, although I believe you have to be realistic with expectations, and that not everybody is relationship material, or even hookup material.

@@joshflugel it is comforting knowing that it is possible to find love on dating apps when so many people say for men it’s a lost game. Then about being aware about not being relationship material… it tickles me hihi what do you mean exactly? because to me it’s clear not everyone is material. I can’t personally and I think that’s why I struggle finding a match there

@@anticonfidencegirl Ok, we're in the same page then. I found two good matches, and it's indeed a struggle if I look at time: it took almost at least two years each before I found relationship material. I turned out picky because I am an introvert who mostly likes things outside the mainstream, nothing special, it's just clicking with people and finding things in common is kinda hard, most of the times I can't go anywhere beyond small talk.

Many thanks! It helps me

Hi, thank you!!! It's encouraging. You have no clue

@@anticonfidencegirl you are welcome 😁

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Thanks a lot!