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Very cute! You look young n fresh! I have baby number 3 coming in July I get my hair cut n colored on Friday I can’t wait

I found never using the new baby as the reason you can't spend time with them. It seems harmless, but it sticks. The baby is the reason Mom can't play. Also, talking about how much the baby is going to love them. It's so true as well. Everything really shifts perspective."Brother wants to be just like you and you make everything looks so much fun that is why he took your toy. He needs to learn to ask though."

So adorable 😍

I just got rid of my bangs four years ago. I got tired of cutting them- NEVER again 💀

SO good Shayla!! Thank you for this ❤️

Right on! I felt all the same ways until just recently. I really think the PD played a huge roll in that. My girl just turned 3 and I am finally feeling all the happy feels that I imagined I would feel after having a baby. Hate that it took this long, 😩😭 but glad to finally be here! So sad we can’t be real life friends, you seem like such a fun mom, but thanks for the videos! 🤗

Overnight heartless bangs: use a pretty big foam roller on mine rolling them forward and under like how I want them to lay and just brush them out in the morning. it’s the only way I have been able to be a mama and still have “styled” bangs

Love them!!! You look great as always ❤

What is the rewiring happiness book?

I LOVE that you’re shifting to more positive mindset content!! It is SO IMPORTANT and I am eating it up!! You’re awesome!

Love it!!!

Right before my third baby I chopped my hair to my ears. Didn't end up caring to maintain the chop, but I did love the bangs 😊 just what my generous forehead wanted haha

Cute !! Love the bangs :) especially for summer 😊 looking good lil mama 😉

Looks cute ☺️

Fabulous! And if you don’t like it - hair grows changes! Never permanent! Also, you’re so wonderful, doing something for your work (making a short/reel) and INCLUDING the professional who’s doing a service for you - she’s also laughing and having fun! You’re not taking yourself seriously! I’m sure doing this kind of thing in public feels a little weird! It looks like you’re making it HUMAN too, and it comes off so authentic

Please keep us posted if you like them or not! I think it looks great on you but as a toddler mom as well and a yoga teacher I don’t know if I can handle the upkeep and the constant hair in my face feeling..

Great video! Thank you! ❤

It looks great! I have the same cowlick. Been getting my hair similar to this for a year or so.. went last time and somehow I ended up with BABY bangs.. google it 😅 actually cried when I saw them. Hoping it grows fast 🥲

You suck

This is so me right now lol

So cute! I love it ❤😊

Moms work is for 18-20 years. Dads work is forever even if moms never go back to work our husbands will still be working their whole lives to provide for us and the kids. When I think about this it’s makes me grateful for my husband and I know I don’t HAVE to go back to work when I’m done raising kids because he will still be providing even after the kids leave home ❤

10:26 -- yes. Yes, that was 100% taught to Millenial and GenZ women. That being a SAHM is not a legitimate _vocation_ choice, that it's lesser-than, that those women are homely and sad and not part of the real world, etc. That is NOT how people used to think. That is NOT how many other cultures think! People in other cultures and in the past saw SAHMs and the MOST important people in literally the whole world. They're portals to new _life_ and single-handedly raise the next generation!! But corporate crony-capitalists took a hold of the rise of feminism, and USED it to convince women that they should be in an outside-the-home workplace too -- _working for the Man_ -- because it benefits THEM!!! More women need to realize this. Feminism is not evil, but a lot of people have USED feminism for their own gain. Especially the corporate elites. So for almost 3 generations, women _and_ men have been taught from birth that women and men should work outside the home, and that staying home 24/7 to raise your children isn't a "real job" and isn't worth your time. This topic just gets me SO fired up and mad, what they've done to us and what they've taken from us. To any mom or potential mom who reads this: *_being a mother is THE most important job you could ever do, THE most important mission you could ever undertake._* Don't let anyone -- including your upbringing -- convince you otherwise. You are not only making sure the human species doesn't _literally die out,_ you are also MOLDING the next generation how YOU think they should be!! What could be more powerful or meaningful than that?? No job can compare to that.

The baby on board sign was made so in the event of an accident, paramedics know to search for a baby in the car

Having wild hormonal swings while pregnant and/or postpartum that lead to jealous or negative thoughts is totally normal. But not being mindful of those feelings/thoughts and controlling them is immaturity. That’s why children don’t have babies. It’s for adults, so best all of us women be proper mature adults before we become mothers.

15:51 omg this is SO true! I feel like the momster comes out when my husband gets home. All the stressors from the day get unloaded. He is my safe person, but it doesn’t give me the right to lash out. With his grace, I’m learning to communicate in a healthier way and be better.

I believe a lot of young women back then were taught these things but nowadays we are throw into it and we have to teach ourselves. I remember when my first was born I went to CZcams for encouragement and advice because my expectations on motherhood did not line up with reality. Now almost 9 years later and four kids into motherhood, I can say I have learned a lot but I still have moments where I need to correct my thinking. Thank you for making this video, this is an important topic!

6:36 Before kids I was so career focused! After I had my daughter, it took so much effort to care about work. lol That’s when I knew I needed to be at home with my baby. 💙

Comparison is the thief of joy. If you do what works for your family then it doesn’t matter what other people are doing.

You’re just the best… Thanks for putting in words what we all feel and experience… 🤗💕

My 9 year old came into my room to confirm it was in fact bed time after dad told him it was bedtime. Because he said I was in charge 😂 dad was offended.

Ugh this is so good the pan thing is literally what gets to me too!!! The exact same argument 😅 thank you for your honestly and the reminder to take a step back and look at the whole house instead of just the pan 😂

I needed this mindset refresh so much. Thank you! ❤ Mom of 3 over here, and it’s the hardest thing I’ve ever done, but as you said, I’m so grateful to be here with them witnessing all of the special moments.

I have a 3yo and a 10 month. Me and my partner do Wednesday drinks after bedtime with no distraction and just talk and tune into the other person. Weekly sync so to speak.

I needed this ❤

Haha this was a kick in the arse that I needed! Thank you!

I believe someone said it on your podcast: “why do you need your partner to know all of the things you know?” And that hit me. I would get so upset that I was keeping track of alllll the things and that he wouldn’t know what size diapers our girls were in if his life depended on it. But why does that matter? I take care of that, he takes care of other things. And I fill him in on the things that he does need to know.

My first(and only atm) just turned 1 about 2 months ago. We want(ed) our kids to be 2 years apart, but I've been concerned cause whewf lol But this video was encouraging. Thank you ❤ My first is def all over the place and emotional 😂

You really just hit thr nail on the head with so many things here. I found myself nodding along and laughing, so thank you. These are some of those unexpected things that happen with parenthood, and why so many relationships fail after babies are born. The toddler activity/craft thing, same, so many tabs open on chrome with them and i just end up sitting there feeling bad that I'm not doing any of them. Goodbye 😂

I just ate I think 8 orange cream popsicles watching this after a major hormonal break down where my husband finally got home and took the baby to the park. I am due to give birth any day now and omg the resentment is real as I stay at home with our 17mo who I love! But on days where she's still breastfeeding, my nipples are soooooo done from hormone surges and I'm super lethargic and had to entertain her all day not being able to pick her up really.......all he has to is go to work and "he's tired or having a bad day too" That was all I needed to go off entirely at him. Finally calmed down and he is a great dad and husband and does his best but hormones are real too.....I wish all I did was cry, but I learn towards straight up rage and then cry after and all I need is to be hugged and touched, but we have the toddler and like he wants to touch me after a scream out match. Sigh. Just hoping hormones really do go down after this 2nd baby is out. We also got pregnant and married within 3mo of knowing each other. So this is 2 babies in 2 years while moving across states with no direct family help or support. Totally our choice, but it's a lot so there is a lot of room for grace on both our ends. I'm lucky we are as compatible and willing as we are considering our circumstances!

Yes compassionate and graceful. That’s two people consider everyone’s needs. This woman just solve all marriage conflicts. Keep leaning into each other and finding a system works for you and the husband, or you and the wife. Great video !!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

Loving the motherhood mindset content! Would love to see more of this ❤

How to not resent your husband after kids was a great read for understanding the different perspectives

What is the book you mentioned for wiring your brain for happiness?