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i'm a 54 year old, marine corps disabled veteran, in about 1985 i borrowed a friends cassette and put my heahphones on, heard this song, at the time i was hholding a wet rag to my mouth to stop the blood after my mom had just "loved" me again .... the opening lyric "they cry in the dark so you can't see their tears" hit me so hard! thank you for wrting/ singing this song .... i was not alone, i know hundreds of people have told you ... but thank you

Can’t thank you enough for sharing this with us. Fantastic couple and Rock and Roll hall of fame legends !

Believe it or not but here in the UK we got this song as a B' side and not the A' side....and very Blondie-esque because of their Producer Mike Chapman at the time even though he did not produce this particular song you would have thought he did and both artists were on the very same record label Chrysalis records.

A lot of people back then perceived that Hell Is For Children was not about abuse BUT it is where all children should go to ie Hell....but obviously a lot did not exactly listen to the lyrics of the song.

Great song

Hell is for hell. Hell is not for children or anyone, you matter . Thank you for such a powerful, painful message and song.

Spider & Pat have been truly blessed with success, family, and most of all, each other. Thanks for the years you two. God bless both of you.

Invincible is my favorite. They are all my favorite but Invincible hits hard

Neil Geraldo is a beast underrated guitar monster! And Pat is a rock icon!

IT hans always Been a favorit to me ,as I mere Marieed18.5. 2024 , we told the priest that after the ceremoni and walk out of church, to We Belong. The Sound in the church gave me goosebumbs walking out . we just love this song.

Heartbreaker with a little Jonny Cash in the mix…Absolutely brilliant. Pat Benatar sings like wildfire and oh man that guitar

Thank you Neil and Pat for this awesome track , you brought a light to something that for the longest time was kept hush hush and always in the dark . This track means a lot to me because I suffered psychological abuse for about 6 months in my childhood before CPS stepped in , and my wife was constantly abused by her family as a child. You helped so many people like myself , my wife , and countless others with this awesome track. Thank you @BenatarGiraldo

My first record or single was Fire and Ice,Given to me by my first grade teacher shortly after it was released.These two are my favorite musicians even till this day.Maybe one day this lifelong fan can get a autographed picture.❤❤❤

Phenomenon u r ty again for the show in Lincoln CA may 10 2024 at The Venue🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘

Thank u pat

It takes me back to a wonderful time in my life. It was a great pop tune that help defined the 80s that and acting like a chicken in the video lol

A fantastic song! A great guitar solo with real heart and soul with that ascending note that goes into the subconscience Nirvana, and that one vocal part at the solo break is mind blowing you just have to say WOW! It just floors you.

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I am almost 60 and the first time I heard this song and every time since then that I hear it reminds me of being 8 years old and the first time my SOB uncle *who is dead and i hope rotting in hell* molested me. It took me until I was 56 to tell anyone in my family. I never told my dad because I was afraid my dad would kill my uncle and my dad would end up in prison and that sob wasn’t worth my dad going to prison!!!

The world over for generations, children have suffered abuse in silence and many still do today. Contrast that to the suffering that children go through today that is in the open and yet mostly receives a blind eye.

That’s so true ! Music is like a Time Machine in the sense that it takes you back to moments in your life and you remember so clearly… Even my father who has dementia will remember music dates and times … It’s wild how music effects us …

✨💫❤️‍🔥QUEEN❤️‍🔥💫✨ and ✨💫🗡KING🗡💫✨

Why do so many lyric sites have “You’re the right kind of dreamer” but I can’t find any recordings that ever have that line??

My 11 year old daughter is going to be singing lead vocals on this for School of Rock at a local food hall. It is a great song with a powerful message. One doesn’t realize but music performance is a platform which entails responsibility and gives a voice to individuals and to issues. School of Rock gives the music performance platform to children which is so empowering, especially in sharing issues that directly affect children.

❤MY FAVORITE FEMALE SINGER PAT BENATAR GIRALDO 😊

❤ SAVE ALL ANIMALS ❤

BEST LOVE STORY THESE TWO 💞 I CAN ONLY WISH 🤔

Nick, I forgive you for stealing my girl. Thanks for taking care of her all these years. 😅

This song weighed very heavily on me as a kid. I cried a lot when I heard it. My brother had the album Crimes of passion and I used to play a lot in my bedroom. I was severely abused myself growing up by my mother. I don’t blame her so much because she was severely abused herself. Growing up out of the depression in Queens New York they had absolutely nothing. I’m pretty sure my mother was whipping post. When I was born, we lived in Brooklyn New York. My dad was in the Navy. Eventually, we moved to Newport Rhode Island for a better life. My parents got divorced when my father left the Navy and my mother didn’t want to go back to Brooklyn so we stayed in Newport but we had to move into a project. That’s when I started being abused, pretty much all the time. When I look back at those days, there were some of the hardest of my life. This song reminds me of how strong I was as a child, and how far comes since. It’s just one of the many reasons why I loved you guys so much. Thanks again! And sorry if you see edited in any of my binge posting of you guys because I’m just seeing all of this awesome content. I’m voice texting on my phone.

Lmao! Shawn Sawyer, the guy before me just explained what happened to me today, lmao! I’m 53 and from Bay Ridge Brooklyn myself. I have pneumonia right now so all I’m doing is a whole bunch of nothing. I woke up with this song in my head today as well ironically. When I went to put it on CZcams and I saw a video of the life and tragic death of Pat Benatar and I got so efin sad because I’ve been listening to you guys since the beginning, love the group tremendously and still listen to you all of the time. I went straight to the internet and found out the asshole was click bating. The only comment he got was me calling him a liar and a fuckin asshole. I was so sad I got choked up. Anyway I’m so relieved and I want to say thank you all for all of your hard work, your ups and downs, for putting your lives on paper. It’s songs like this specifically that helped me through my own life’s problems. You all mean so much to me and I love you two like family I haven’t seen but need to. Wish you were hitting the east Coast. I’d have front row seats ❤️👇🏽🤟🏽

Neil and Pat, Promises is a masterpiece. Beautiful from start to finish, and loved to hear how you composed this. Thank you for sharing your music with us! Saw you all several times, last time at the Bronco Bowl in Texas, 2001 I think. Great show.

I could rwrite a book about your songs I just found these videos. I cant wait to learn how these were created! I know Neil is a brilliant writer! I remember hearing that Pat's favorite was not "Hit me with your best shot😂which I thought was just fabulous because nor, was it my favorite!! Very grateful for that song if it helped you two write more incredible songs! I cant believe i missed this lol I love love love you two so dang much! Pat, you have been the hugest influence of my life, i took vocal lessons at 13 and went to college to study music. I got a degree in music ed (just in case I wasnt opening for you two, i needed something to "fall back on"😊) Gosh what an incredible inspiration you have been to me! Thankvyou truly God bless you two. I always aspired to have myself a wonderful man like you have as well..lol, maybe in the next life, i will get all of it right😂❤🎉 dont know if youll see my message now but I love you❤😊

Pat 😂😊 my hero for real❤

No way😮

Many songs are revolving doors in that they are experienced in different time periods throughout life. Love, pain, scares that never let the ugly in the world kill the beauty inside, so they try again the revolving door in hope of getting off on the right side of true belongings that come together as one to be complete. Much love, L. Sulkes

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When I did an Internet radio show, THIS Song was what I used to kick my show off, I just loved the vibe it gave! It, to me, was what I thought my show was all about!

This was 8th grade when this came out. I was teaching myself a lot of electric guitar stuff. This hit the FM radio and it was like....Cool! A nice change from Heart. Neil became an instant hero. Along with Edward Van Halen, he became a top new guitarist in our awareness. Don Kirshner's had you all live.... Neil too cool with the BC Rich Eagle... just total control of his playing.... the two small Marshalls behind him I noticed wasn't the normal Stack. Anyhoo... the solo is great...you always turned up the radio when this came on. Pat and Neil created a monster hit.

I first heard this in 80 or '81...My best friend was staying the night and we teenage boys are rowdy, playing guitars and watching Don Kirshner's and Midnight Special. I believe it was Don Kirshner's... we both were impressed by how high pitch Pat could sing. But the hook of the chorus stuck in my head. As years went by, anytime I heard those words mentioned on television, in conversation, wherever, it always prompted me to recall this tune.🙂 Ever notice how the verse of We Live For Love, the music riff, seems like Toto borrowed it for Rosannah?

Fuck shit

Hell is for hell!! Great shredder!!! I knew i wasn’t alone & hurting as a kid back then!! It gave me hope that some folks care. 🏆🎸👏✝️👏🎸

I need ya’lls health & fitness secrets! You two look so good!!!

What a wonderful suprize!! Glad to be able to enjoy ya’lls music,storied & everything!! 🏆👏🎸👏🏆✝️🎸

Killer guitar work as usual Spider!

Inspirational. Great songs, couple.

I cry every time I hear this. I replay it over and over. Crying every time. It's exactly what I need from time to time. Releasing. Thank you. Survivors, in my opinion, need to release this pain. Those that don't risk inflicting others. It's not intentional. We're just broken. It's a lifelong affliction. And it's something nobody wants to hear about. Courage is your friend. Very courageous piece of art. Courage is the best strategy I am aware of. As survivors carry enough pain to do horrific things. Healing and moving on past all these things is the goal. This is such an honest heartfelt song. I imagine it will be seen as such forever. It transcends time.

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They are probably one of the few rocking couples from the 80's that are still together. They sound just as good today as in 1984 from I first heard of them. THANK YOU for the music!.